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Re­la­tion­ships (In­ter­per­sonal)

TagLast edit: 9 Jun 2020 22:30 UTC by Ruby

Interpersonal Relationships includes all forms of sustained interaction between people. This topic includes any discussion relating to friendship, romantic relationships, family relationships, business relationships, and so on.

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Limer­ence Messes Up Your Ra­tion­al­ity Real Bad, Yo

Raemon1 Jul 2022 16:53 UTC
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Anatomy of a Dat­ing Document

squidious31 Jul 2022 2:40 UTC
28 points
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(opalsandbonobos.blogspot.com)

Selfless Dating

Jacob Falkovich5 Jan 2022 17:44 UTC
21 points
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Re­la­tion­ship Ad­vice Repository

Ruby20 Jun 2022 14:39 UTC
106 points
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In­ten­tion­ally Mak­ing Close Friends

Neel Nanda27 Jun 2021 23:06 UTC
288 points
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(www.neelnanda.io)

Dat­ing Minefield vs. Dat­ing Playground

Vlad Loweren16 Sep 2021 16:13 UTC
23 points
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Friendship

alkjash1 Mar 2018 6:00 UTC
23 points
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(radimentary.wordpress.com)

Dat­ing pro­files from first prin­ci­ples: het­ero­sex­ual male pro­file design

Xodarap25 Oct 2021 3:23 UTC
97 points
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Beyond micromarriages

Richard_Ngo11 Mar 2022 3:40 UTC
91 points
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(thinkingcomplete.blogspot.com)

Books I read 2017 - Part 1. Re­la­tion­ships, Learning

Elo18 Dec 2017 9:38 UTC
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Straight-edge Warn­ing Against Phys­i­cal Intimacy

Raphaëll23 Nov 2020 21:35 UTC
17 points
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“She Wanted It”

sarahconstantin11 Nov 2018 22:00 UTC
120 points
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(srconstantin.wordpress.com)

Let the AI teach you how to flirt

DirectedEvolution17 Sep 2020 19:04 UTC
47 points
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Un­der­stand­able vs jus­tifi­able vs useful

MichaelA28 Feb 2020 7:43 UTC
10 points
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Iter­ated Trust Kickstarters

Raemon20 Apr 2021 3:18 UTC
74 points
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Ra­tional Ro­man­tic Re­la­tion­ships, Part 1: Re­la­tion­ship Styles and At­trac­tion Basics

lukeprog5 Nov 2011 11:06 UTC
69 points
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The Re­la­tional Stance

Raemon11 Feb 2020 5:16 UTC
47 points
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Friend­ship is trans­ac­tional, un­con­di­tional friend­ship is insurance

Ruby17 Jul 2024 22:52 UTC
66 points
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[link] The AI Gir­lfriend Se­duc­ing China’s Lonely Men

Kaj_Sotala14 Dec 2020 20:18 UTC
34 points
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(www.sixthtone.com)

Polyhacking

Alicorn28 Aug 2011 8:35 UTC
121 points
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Pri­vacy and Manipulation

Raemon5 Dec 2021 0:39 UTC
78 points
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[Question] What have your ro­man­tic ex­pe­riences with non-EAs/​non-Ra­tion­al­ists been like?

Randomized, Controlled5 Dec 2021 4:41 UTC
46 points
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What’s it like to have sex with Dun­can?

Duncan Sabien (Deactivated)17 Jun 2022 2:32 UTC
51 points
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What I’ve Learned From My Par­ents’ Ar­ranged Marriage

squidious26 Mar 2019 6:40 UTC
92 points
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(opalsandbonobos.blogspot.com)

My Dat­ing Heuristic

Declan Molony21 May 2024 5:28 UTC
26 points
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Sex-Pos­i­tivity is Countercultural

Jacob Falkovich29 Sep 2021 18:22 UTC
39 points
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Funny Anec­dote of Eliezer From His Sister

Noah Birnbaum22 Apr 2024 22:05 UTC
198 points
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Dun­can Sa­bien: “In Defense of Punch Bug”

Davis_Kingsley3 May 2018 8:26 UTC
30 points
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(medium.com)

[Question] [Refer­ence re­quest] Can Love be Ex­plained?

Alexander Gietelink Oldenziel7 Jul 2020 10:09 UTC
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Notes on Empathy

David Gross3 May 2022 4:06 UTC
27 points
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What is “True Love”?

johnswentworth18 Aug 2024 16:05 UTC
60 points
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AI Gir­lfriends Won’t Mat­ter Much

Maxwell Tabarrok23 Dec 2023 15:58 UTC
42 points
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(maximumprogress.substack.com)

Univer­sal Love In­te­gra­tion Test: Hitler

Raemon10 Jan 2024 23:55 UTC
76 points
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[Question] Are there high-qual­ity sur­veys available de­tailing the rates of polyamory among Amer­i­cans age 18-45 in metropoli­tan ar­eas in the United States?

Evan_Gaensbauer18 Jan 2024 23:50 UTC
23 points
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One True Love

Zvi9 Feb 2024 15:10 UTC
33 points
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(thezvi.wordpress.com)

Paraso­cial re­la­tion­ship logic

KatjaGrace23 Feb 2024 7:30 UTC
20 points
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(worldspiritsockpuppet.com)

Balanc­ing Games

jefftk24 Feb 2024 14:40 UTC
61 points
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(www.jefftk.com)

Dat­ing Roundup #3: Third Time’s the Charm

Zvi8 May 2024 13:30 UTC
45 points
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(thezvi.wordpress.com)

[Question] Thoughts on the rel­a­tive eco­nomic benefits of polyamorous re­la­tion­ships?

OKlogic9 May 2024 18:26 UTC
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“25 Les­sons from 25 Years of Mar­riage” by hon­orary ra­tio­nal­ist Fer­rett Stein­metz

CronoDAS2 Oct 2024 22:42 UTC
24 points
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(theferrett.substack.com)

Re­la­tion­ship com­pat­i­bil­ity as pat­terns of emo­tional associations

Kaj_Sotala29 Apr 2017 17:11 UTC
3 points
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(kajsotala.fi)

Poll: What do you look for in a re­la­tion­ship?

Desrtopa10 Feb 2011 1:15 UTC
6 points
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New Re­la­tion­ship En­ergy as an Emo­tional Bias

squidious8 Jul 2017 7:00 UTC
3 points
0 comments2 min readLW link
(www.blogger.com)

Models of hu­man re­la­tion­ships—tools to un­der­stand people

Elo29 Jul 2017 3:31 UTC
29 points
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Use con­crete lan­guage to im­prove your com­mu­ni­ca­tion in relationships

Elo19 Oct 2017 3:46 UTC
9 points
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[Question] Weight­ing At­tach­ment in Re­la­tion­ship Decisions

wolverdude5 Mar 2020 6:04 UTC
12 points
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Diver­sify Your Friend­ship Portfolio

Davis_Kingsley9 Jul 2019 23:06 UTC
73 points
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Friend­ship is utilitarian

KatjaGrace3 Dec 2015 1:00 UTC
1 point
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Friend­ship and hap­piness generation

AlexMennen25 Nov 2011 20:52 UTC
1 point
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On Gen­der and Emo­tional Support

squidious7 May 2018 22:37 UTC
17 points
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Cat­e­go­riz­ing Love: How hav­ing more words for love might make it less scary

squidious5 Apr 2018 23:10 UTC
15 points
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(opalsandbonobos.blogspot.com)

Ther­apy vs emo­tional support

squidious23 Sep 2019 19:00 UTC
16 points
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(opalsandbonobos.blogspot.com)

Refram­ing a Crush: Distill­ing the “like” out of “like like”

squidious7 Nov 2018 2:50 UTC
6 points
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(opalsandbonobos.blogspot.com)

When Hav­ing Friends is More Allur­ing than Be­ing Right (by Fer­rett Stein­metz)

CronoDAS30 Jul 2019 9:58 UTC
19 points
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(www.theferrett.com)

Post-col­lege: chang­ing na­ture of friend interactions

calcsam9 Jan 2013 22:26 UTC
27 points
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The In­tel­li­gent So­cial Web

Valentine22 Feb 2018 18:55 UTC
229 points
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How to un­der­stand peo­ple bet­ter

pwno14 Oct 2011 19:53 UTC
100 points
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How I ap­ply (so-called) Non-Violent Communication

Kaj_Sotala15 May 2023 9:56 UTC
84 points
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Trust de­vel­ops grad­u­ally via mak­ing bids and set­ting boundaries

Richard_Ngo19 May 2023 22:16 UTC
129 points
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Let­ting Others Be Vulnerable

lifelonglearner19 Nov 2018 2:59 UTC
33 points
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New Post ver­sion 1 (please read this ONLY if your last name be­ings with a–k)

lukeprog27 Jul 2011 21:57 UTC
40 points
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New Post ver­sion 2 (please read this ONLY if your last name be­ings with l–z)

lukeprog27 Jul 2011 21:57 UTC
14 points
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My Great­est Achievement

Swimmer963 (Miranda Dixon-Luinenburg) 12 Sep 2011 19:26 UTC
47 points
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A Pro­to­col for Op­ti­miz­ing Affection

[deleted]30 May 2012 0:38 UTC
39 points
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Do Women Like Ass­holes?

Jacob Falkovich22 Jun 2020 2:14 UTC
30 points
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Con­flict, the Rules of En­gage­ment, and Professionalism

habryka5 Sep 2020 5:04 UTC
47 points
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EA Re­la­tion­ship Status

jefftk19 Sep 2020 1:50 UTC
27 points
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(www.jefftk.com)

Charisma is a Force Multiplier

Davis_Kingsley11 Oct 2020 10:21 UTC
39 points
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The Dun­bar Play­book: A CRM sys­tem for your friends

Severin T. Seehrich15 Aug 2023 8:44 UTC
33 points
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(amoretlicentia.substack.com)

Dat­ing Roundup #1: This is Why You’re Single

Zvi29 Aug 2023 12:50 UTC
86 points
28 comments38 min readLW link
(thezvi.wordpress.com)

Stop try­ing to have “in­ter­est­ing” friends

eq19 Apr 2023 23:39 UTC
41 points
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Triumph & Hope: How Far Hu­man­ity Has Come

Ruby21 Feb 2021 18:07 UTC
23 points
0 comments5 min readLW link
(jesswhittlestone.com)

My Mar­riage Vows

Vanessa Kosoy21 Jul 2021 10:48 UTC
84 points
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Com­ments on Ja­cob Falkovich on loneliness

Alex Flint16 Sep 2021 22:04 UTC
29 points
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Easily Top 20%

Jacob Falkovich29 Sep 2021 18:24 UTC
38 points
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Im­pres­sive vs hon­est signaling

Adam Zerner26 Oct 2021 7:16 UTC
31 points
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Sex Versus

Jacob Falkovich5 Jan 2022 17:38 UTC
14 points
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Con­sen­sual Hostility

Jacob Falkovich5 Jan 2022 17:40 UTC
10 points
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10 Rea­sons You’re Lazy About Dating

Jacob Falkovich5 Jan 2022 17:43 UTC
6 points
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How satis­fied should you ex­pect to be with your part­ner?

Vaniver22 Feb 2022 23:27 UTC
101 points
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Grace­fully cor­rect­ing un­cal­ibrated shame

AF202211 May 2022 19:51 UTC
−32 points
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Per­ils of op­ti­miz­ing in so­cial contexts

owencb16 Jun 2022 17:40 UTC
50 points
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[Question] Are long-form dat­ing pro­files pro­duc­tive?

AABoyles27 Jun 2022 17:03 UTC
34 points
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Notes on Love

David Gross13 Jul 2022 23:35 UTC
18 points
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A blog post is a very long and com­plex search query to find fas­ci­nat­ing peo­ple and make them route in­ter­est­ing stuff to your inbox

Henrik Karlsson5 Oct 2022 19:07 UTC
89 points
12 comments11 min readLW link
(escapingflatland.substack.com)

[Question] [Per­sonal Ques­tion] Can any­one help me nav­i­gate this po­ten­tially painful in­ter­per­sonal dy­namic ra­tio­nally?

SlainLadyMondegreen17 Nov 2022 8:53 UTC
9 points
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Why Are Women Hot?

Jacob Falkovich18 Dec 2022 23:20 UTC
17 points
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Effec­tive ways to find love?

anonymoususer28 Dec 2022 20:46 UTC
8 points
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“Sta­tus” can be cor­ro­sive; here’s how I han­dle it

Akash24 Jan 2023 1:25 UTC
71 points
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Sex is Good, Actually

Gordon Seidoh Worley5 Feb 2023 6:33 UTC
41 points
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In Defense of Chat­bot Romance

Kaj_Sotala11 Feb 2023 14:30 UTC
123 points
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(kajsotala.fi)

Build­ing and En­ter­tain­ing Couples

Jacob Falkovich22 Feb 2023 19:02 UTC
85 points
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Ways of be­ing with you

KatjaGrace5 Feb 2021 7:00 UTC
7 points
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(worldspiritsockpuppet.com)

How to Sup­port Some­one Who is Struggling

David Zeller11 Mar 2023 18:52 UTC
76 points
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The State of Affairs

Jacob Falkovich3 May 2019 16:18 UTC
33 points
0 comments14 min readLW link

How my so­cial skills went from hor­rible to mediocre

JonahS19 May 2015 23:29 UTC
49 points
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In­tro­duc­tion to Modern Dat­ing: Strate­gic Dat­ing Ad­vice for be­gin­ners

Jesper Lindholm20 Jul 2024 15:45 UTC
5 points
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Be more effec­tive by learn­ing im­por­tant prac­ti­cal knowl­edge us­ing flashcards

Stenemo12 Oct 2022 18:05 UTC
5 points
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Miti­gat­ing So­cial Awkwardness

Cayenne1 May 2011 0:54 UTC
36 points
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The Power to Be Emo­tion­ally Mature

Liron16 Sep 2019 2:41 UTC
34 points
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I’m be­com­ing in­tol­er­ant. Help.

loup-vaillant30 Jun 2011 15:30 UTC
34 points
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Raw Post: Talk­ing With My Brother

DirectedEvolution13 Jul 2019 2:57 UTC
23 points
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On Emo­tional Re­spon­si­bil­ity & Abuse

devas24 Apr 2018 12:50 UTC
10 points
8 comments3 min readLW link
(landofwindandskyscrapers.tumblr.com)

Kelly Bet on Everything

Jacob Falkovich10 Jul 2020 2:48 UTC
101 points
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The Golem

Kaj_Sotala7 Mar 2009 18:32 UTC
17 points
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Us­ing ma­chine learn­ing to pre­dict ro­man­tic com­pat­i­bil­ity: em­piri­cal results

JonahS17 Dec 2014 2:54 UTC
37 points
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Guidelines for cold mes­sag­ing people

Severin T. Seehrich17 Jan 2022 12:07 UTC
34 points
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Avoid large group dis­cus­sions in your so­cial events

RomanHauksson15 Feb 2023 21:05 UTC
36 points
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I am Bad at Flirt­ing; Real­iz­ing that by Notic­ing Confusion

snog toddgrass30 Jun 2020 20:05 UTC
8 points
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The In­ner Ring by C. S. Lewis

Saul Munn24 Apr 2024 22:48 UTC
69 points
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(www.lewissociety.org)

Shittests are ac­tu­ally good

snog toddgrass24 Sep 2020 17:20 UTC
−11 points
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Over­com­ing the MWC

Mark Freed25 Jul 2023 17:31 UTC
3 points
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AI ro­man­tic part­ners will harm so­ciety if they go unregulated

Roman Leventov1 Aug 2023 9:32 UTC
25 points
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Love and Ra­tion­al­ity: Less Wrongers on OKCupid

Relsqui11 Oct 2010 6:35 UTC
26 points
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Gold, Silver, Red: A color scheme for un­der­stand­ing people

Michael Soareverix13 Mar 2023 1:06 UTC
17 points
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Does play­ing hard to get work? AB test­ing for romance

amplemaple26 Oct 2020 15:29 UTC
17 points
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Go F*** Someone

Jacob Falkovich15 Jan 2020 18:39 UTC
19 points
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Re­la­tion­ship Out­comes Are Not Par­tic­u­larly Sen­si­tive to Small Vari­a­tions in Ver­bal Ability

Zack_M_Davis9 Feb 2020 0:34 UTC
14 points
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(zackmdavis.net)

Re­la­tion­ship Orientations

DaystarEld24 Feb 2023 19:43 UTC
37 points
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(daystareld.com)

Mate se­lec­tion for the men here

rhollerith3 Jun 2009 23:05 UTC
13 points
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That You’d Tell All Your Friends

Eliezer Yudkowsky1 Mar 2009 12:04 UTC
8 points
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In Defense of Unreliability

ozymandias22 Sep 2017 15:46 UTC
9 points
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The Wrong­ness Iceberg

alfredmacdonald4 Feb 2013 9:02 UTC
30 points
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Think in Terms of Ac­tions, not Attributes

Collisteru11 Nov 2020 15:57 UTC
7 points
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[Question] Places to meet in­ter­est­ing mid­dle-aged men?

anon_girl23 Sep 2023 19:06 UTC
18 points
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Re­la­tional Agency: Con­sis­tently Reach­ing Out

Jonathan Moregård13 Mar 2024 14:34 UTC
16 points
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(open.substack.com)

Why At­ti­tudes Matter

ozymandias21 Sep 2017 15:07 UTC
19 points
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The im­pact of you is de­ter­mined by them.

Munkh-Ochir Soyol-Erdene10 Dec 2020 22:01 UTC
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Ca­ma­raderie at scale: in search of shared identity

eq24 Apr 2023 16:46 UTC
8 points
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Soul­mate Fermi Es­ti­mate + My A(ltr)u[t]is­tic Mat­ing Strat­egy

Jordan Arel12 Oct 2023 8:32 UTC
0 points
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How To So­cial­ize With Psy­cho(lo­gist)s

Sable20 Oct 2023 11:33 UTC
37 points
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(affablyevil.substack.com)

[Question] Dat­ing in 2023 sucks. Why isn’t AI helping?

Andreas Chrysopoulos16 Oct 2023 12:31 UTC
5 points
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[Question] What de­ter­mines fe­male ro­man­tic “mar­ket value”?

anon_girl16 Jan 2023 18:45 UTC
16 points
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[Question] A Tale of Two In­tel­li­gences: xRisk, AI, and My Relationship

xRiskAnon92310 Apr 2023 23:35 UTC
2 points
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Ask­ing For Help

Neel Nanda27 Dec 2020 11:32 UTC
23 points
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(neelnanda.io)

[Question] How do you con­cisely com­mu­ni­cate & nav­i­gate the poli­tics /​ cul­ture at your job work­ing at a large cor­po­ra­tion or in­sti­tu­tion?

Willa12 Jul 2022 3:22 UTC
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MonoPoly Restricted Trust

ymeskhout2 Jan 2024 23:02 UTC
42 points
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In­verse Prob­lems In Every­day Life

silentbob15 Oct 2024 11:42 UTC
14 points
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More art, less stink: Tak­ing the PU out of PUA

XFrequentist10 Sep 2010 0:25 UTC
89 points
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Win­ning is for Losers

Jacob Falkovich11 Oct 2017 4:01 UTC
31 points
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(putanumonit.com)

[Question] Why are peo­ple so bad at dat­ing?

Xodarap28 Oct 2019 14:32 UTC
65 points
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Re­quire con­tri­bu­tions in advance

Viliam8 Feb 2016 12:55 UTC
93 points
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How to Make Billions of Dol­lars Re­duc­ing Loneliness

John_Maxwell30 Aug 2019 17:30 UTC
60 points
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Ra­tion­al­ity Les­sons Learned from Ir­ra­tional Ad­ven­tures in Romance

lukeprog4 Oct 2011 2:45 UTC
69 points
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So­phie Grouchy on A Build-Break Model of Cooperation

weft25 May 2018 14:55 UTC
25 points
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(sophiegrouchy.wordpress.com)

Un­known knowns: Why did you choose to be monog­a­mous?

WrongBot26 Jun 2010 2:50 UTC
69 points
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The Typ­i­cal Sex Life Fallacy

ozymandias7 Oct 2017 21:48 UTC
41 points
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The Skewed and the Screwed: When Mat­ing Meets Politics

Jacob Falkovich29 Jan 2020 15:50 UTC
62 points
6 comments15 min readLW link1 review

Com­mu­ni­ca­tion strate­gies for autism, with examples

stonefly3 May 2023 5:25 UTC
16 points
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En­ti­tle­ment, Covert Con­tracts, So­cial Liber­tar­i­anism, and Re­lated Concepts

ozymandias17 Nov 2017 19:00 UTC
22 points
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New­comb’s prob­lem hap­pened to me

Academian26 Mar 2010 18:31 UTC
51 points
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Whose rea­son­ing can you rely on when your own is faulty?

weft18 Feb 2018 22:41 UTC
29 points
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Per­son­hood is a Reli­gious Belief

jan Sijan3 May 2023 16:16 UTC
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[Question] If I adapted re­ciproc­ity.io for In­sta­gram, would you be more in­clined to use it?

Yoyo Y7 May 2023 16:54 UTC
1 point
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(www.reciprocity.io)

Let them eat cake: In­ter­per­sonal Prob­lems vs Tasks

HughRistik7 Oct 2009 16:35 UTC
96 points
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Worth keeping

KatjaGrace7 Dec 2018 4:50 UTC
51 points
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(meteuphoric.com)

On En­joy­ing Disagree­able Company

Alicorn26 May 2010 1:47 UTC
68 points
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Dispel your jus­tifi­ca­tion-mon­key with a “HWA!”

MalcolmOcean24 Jan 2018 4:51 UTC
21 points
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My Dat­ing Plan ala Ge­offrey Miller

snog toddgrass17 Jul 2020 4:52 UTC
2 points
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Pre­mortem as com­mu­ni­ca­tion de­vice (e.g. in re­la­tion­ship)

becausecurious4 Apr 2022 18:53 UTC
8 points
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Model­ling So­cial Ex­change: A Sys­tem­a­tised Method to Judge Friend­ship Quality

Wynn Walker4 Aug 2024 18:49 UTC
6 points
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Magic is Dead, Give me Attention

Hazard10 Jul 2019 20:15 UTC
40 points
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De­ci­sion Auc­tions aka “How to fairly as­sign chores, or de­cide who gets the last cookie”

daenerys21 Jan 2014 21:13 UTC
60 points
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Ke­gan and Cul­ti­vat­ing Compassion

lifelonglearner11 Mar 2018 1:32 UTC
18 points
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Re­veal Culture

MalcolmOcean25 Jul 2020 3:36 UTC
91 points
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An Apol­ogy is a Surrender

Zachary Jacobi18 Jan 2018 0:06 UTC
22 points
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‘oy, girls on lw, want to get to­gether some time?’

MBlume2 Oct 2009 10:50 UTC
38 points
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Strate­gies and tools for get­ting through a break up

lululu18 May 2015 18:01 UTC
62 points
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A Ra­tion­al­ist Guide to OkCupid

Jacob Falkovich3 Feb 2016 20:50 UTC
41 points
66 comments1 min readLW link

Against Love Languages

Ben Pace29 Dec 2017 9:51 UTC
19 points
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Tak­ing the awk­ward­ness out of a Prenup—A Game The­o­retic solution

VijayKrishnan22 May 2010 0:45 UTC
42 points
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Polyamory is Ra­tional(ist)

Jacob Falkovich18 Oct 2019 16:48 UTC
23 points
2 comments1 min readLW link
(putanumonit.com)

Acausal romance

lukeprog25 Feb 2012 9:13 UTC
40 points
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To what de­gree do you model peo­ple as agents?

Swimmer963 (Miranda Dixon-Luinenburg) 25 Aug 2013 19:29 UTC
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