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Feel­ing Old: Leav­ing your 20s in the 2020s

squidiousNov 22, 2022, 10:50 PM
37 points
3 comments1 min readLW link
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Anatomy of a Dat­ing Document

squidiousJul 31, 2022, 2:40 AM
29 points
24 comments4 min readLW link
(opalsandbonobos.blogspot.com)

Ther­apy vs emo­tional support

squidiousSep 23, 2019, 7:00 PM
16 points
2 comments4 min readLW link
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What I’ve Learned From My Par­ents’ Ar­ranged Marriage

squidiousMar 26, 2019, 6:40 AM
91 points
16 comments5 min readLW link
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Refram­ing a Crush: Distill­ing the “like” out of “like like”

squidiousNov 7, 2018, 2:50 AM
6 points
0 comments3 min readLW link
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A Step-by-step Guide to Find­ing a (Good!) Therapist

squidiousJul 18, 2018, 1:50 AM
46 points
5 comments9 min readLW link
(opalsandbonobos.blogspot.com)

So­cietal Growth Re­quires Rehabilitation

squidiousMay 26, 2018, 3:00 AM
5 points
12 comments2 min readLW link
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On Gen­der and Emo­tional Support

squidiousMay 7, 2018, 10:37 PM
17 points
3 comments5 min readLW link

Cat­e­go­riz­ing Love: How hav­ing more words for love might make it less scary

squidiousApr 5, 2018, 11:10 PM
15 points
2 comments3 min readLW link
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Bounds of Attention

squidiousApr 5, 2018, 10:53 PM
26 points
1 comment2 min readLW link

Ac­tive vs Pas­sive Distraction

squidiousFeb 14, 2018, 10:14 PM
26 points
2 comments3 min readLW link

The Self: Mo­men­tary vs Lifetime

squidiousFeb 1, 2018, 9:30 PM
1 point
0 comments2 min readLW link

The De­sired Response

squidiousJan 20, 2018, 10:01 PM
17 points
5 comments2 min readLW link

Map­ping Another’s Universe

squidiousNov 17, 2017, 2:37 AM
11 points
5 comments3 min readLW link

50 Ways To Leave Your Ther­a­pist: Ter­mi­na­tion and why it’s important

squidiousNov 5, 2017, 1:00 AM
9 points
4 comments5 min readLW link
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The Four States: ac­tion, cog­ni­tive, emo­tional, relational

squidiousOct 20, 2017, 7:00 AM
2 points
0 comments2 min readLW link
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Trans­lat­ing CFAR to Therapy

squidiousSep 26, 2017, 7:00 AM
27 points
1 comment5 min readLW link
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When “I’m here” means nothing

squidiousAug 25, 2017, 7:00 AM
2 points
2 comments3 min readLW link
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New Re­la­tion­ship En­ergy as an Emo­tional Bias

squidiousJul 8, 2017, 7:00 AM
3 points
0 comments2 min readLW link
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Reper­son­al­iz­ing the High Status

squidiousMay 16, 2017, 7:00 AM
5 points
0 comments2 min readLW link
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