Relationships (Interpersonal)

TagLast edit: Jun 9, 2020, 10:30 PM by Ruby

Interpersonal Relationships includes all forms of sustained interaction between people. This topic includes any discussion relating to friendship, romantic relationships, family relationships, business relationships, and so on.

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Limerence Messes Up Your Rationality Real Bad, Yo

RaemonJul 1, 2022, 4:53 PM

128 points

41 comments3 min readLW link 2 reviews

Intentionally Making Close Friends

Neel NandaJun 27, 2021, 11:06 PM

289 points

35 comments18 min readLW link 1 review

(www.neelnanda.io)

Anatomy of a Dating Document

squidiousJul 31, 2022, 2:40 AM

29 points

24 comments4 min readLW link

(opalsandbonobos.blogspot.com)

Selfless Dating

Jacob FalkovichJan 5, 2022, 5:44 PM

23 points

7 comments7 min readLW link

Relationship Advice Repository

RubyJun 20, 2022, 2:39 PM

109 points

36 comments38 min readLW link

Dating profiles from first principles: heterosexual male profile design

XodarapOct 25, 2021, 3:23 AM

97 points

32 comments15 min readLW link

Books I read 2017 - Part 1. Relationships, Learning

EloDec 18, 2017, 9:38 AM

17 points

10 comments19 min readLW link

Dating Minefield vs. Dating Playground

Vlad LowerenSep 16, 2021, 4:13 PM

23 points

5 comments4 min readLW link

Beyond micromarriages

Richard_NgoMar 11, 2022, 3:40 AM

91 points

13 comments3 min readLW link

(thinkingcomplete.blogspot.com)

Friendship

alkjashMar 1, 2018, 6:00 AM

24 points

16 comments3 min readLW link

(radimentary.wordpress.com)

Straight-edge Warning Against Physical Intimacy

RaphaëllNov 23, 2020, 9:35 PM

17 points

42 comments5 min readLW link

“She Wanted It”

sarahconstantinNov 11, 2018, 10:00 PM

120 points

21 comments7 min readLW link

(srconstantin.wordpress.com)

Understandable vs justifiable vs useful

MichaelAFeb 28, 2020, 7:43 AM

10 points

3 comments4 min readLW link

Let the AI teach you how to flirt

DirectedEvolutionSep 17, 2020, 7:04 PM

47 points

11 comments2 min readLW link

[link] The AI Girlfriend Seducing China’s Lonely Men

Kaj_SotalaDec 14, 2020, 8:18 PM

34 points

10 comments1 min readLW link

(www.sixthtone.com)

The Relational Stance

RaemonFeb 11, 2020, 5:16 AM

48 points

11 comments8 min readLW link

Iterated Trust Kickstarters

RaemonApr 20, 2021, 3:18 AM

74 points

19 comments10 min readLW link

Friendship is transactional, unconditional friendship is insurance

RubyJul 17, 2024, 10:52 PM

67 points

24 comments2 min readLW link

Rational Romantic Relationships, Part 1: Relationship Styles and Attraction Basics

lukeprogNov 5, 2011, 11:06 AM

69 points

1,537 comments18 min readLW link

Polyhacking

AlicornAug 28, 2011, 8:35 AM

121 points

603 comments8 min readLW link

Sex-Positivity is Countercultural

Jacob FalkovichSep 29, 2021, 6:22 PM

39 points

2 comments3 min readLW link

[Question] What have your romantic experiences with non-EAs/non-Rationalists been like?

Randomized, ControlledDec 5, 2021, 4:41 AM

46 points

24 comments1 min readLW link

What’s it like to have sex with Duncan?

Duncan Sabien (Deactivated)Jun 17, 2022, 2:32 AM

52 points

19 comments17 min readLW link

Privacy and Manipulation

RaemonDec 5, 2021, 12:39 AM

80 points

41 comments8 min readLW link

What I’ve Learned From My Parents’ Arranged Marriage

squidiousMar 26, 2019, 6:40 AM

91 points

16 comments5 min readLW link

(opalsandbonobos.blogspot.com)

My Dating Heuristic

Declan MolonyMay 21, 2024, 5:28 AM

26 points

4 comments2 min readLW link

Funny Anecdote of Eliezer From His Sister

Noah BirnbaumApr 22, 2024, 10:05 PM

205 points

6 comments2 min readLW link

Duncan Sabien: “In Defense of Punch Bug”

Davis_KingsleyMay 3, 2018, 8:26 AM

30 points

187 comments1 min readLW link

(medium.com)

The Intelligent Social Web

ValentineFeb 22, 2018, 6:55 PM

230 points

112 comments12 min readLW link 2 reviews

[Question] [Reference request] Can Love be Explained?

Alexander Gietelink OldenzielJul 7, 2020, 10:09 AM

5 points

5 comments1 min readLW link

Reframing a Crush: Distilling the “like” out of “like like”

squidiousNov 7, 2018, 2:50 AM

6 points

0 comments3 min readLW link

(opalsandbonobos.blogspot.com)

What is “True Love”?

johnswentworthAug 18, 2024, 4:05 PM

72 points

11 comments1 min readLW link

AI Girlfriends Won’t Matter Much

Maxwell TabarrokDec 23, 2023, 3:58 PM

42 points

22 comments2 min readLW link

(maximumprogress.substack.com)

Universal Love Integration Test: Hitler

RaemonJan 10, 2024, 11:55 PM

76 points

65 comments9 min readLW link

[Question] Are there high-quality surveys available detailing the rates of polyamory among Americans age 18-45 in metropolitan areas in the United States?

Evan_GaensbauerJan 18, 2024, 11:50 PM

23 points

0 comments1 min readLW link

One True Love

ZviFeb 9, 2024, 3:10 PM

34 points

7 comments10 min readLW link

(thezvi.wordpress.com)

Parasocial relationship logic

KatjaGraceFeb 23, 2024, 7:30 AM

20 points

1 comment1 min readLW link

(worldspiritsockpuppet.com)

Balancing Games

jefftkFeb 24, 2024, 2:40 PM

61 points

18 comments1 min readLW link

(www.jefftk.com)

Dating Roundup #3: Third Time’s the Charm

ZviMay 8, 2024, 1:30 PM

45 points

27 comments39 min readLW link

(thezvi.wordpress.com)

[Question] Thoughts on the relative economic benefits of polyamorous relationships?

OKlogicMay 9, 2024, 6:26 PM

−1 points

4 comments1 min readLW link

“25 Lessons from 25 Years of Marriage” by honorary rationalist Ferrett Steinmetz

CronoDASOct 2, 2024, 10:42 PM

24 points

2 comments1 min readLW link

(theferrett.substack.com)

If all trade is voluntary, then what is “exploitation?”

DarmaniDec 27, 2024, 11:21 AM

34 points

61 comments6 min readLW link

You are not too “irrational” to know your preferences.

DaystarEldNov 26, 2024, 3:01 PM

230 points

50 comments13 min readLW link

Relationship compatibility as patterns of emotional associations

Kaj_SotalaApr 29, 2017, 5:11 PM

3 points

0 comments1 min readLW link

(kajsotala.fi)

Poll: What do you look for in a relationship?

DesrtopaFeb 10, 2011, 1:15 AM

6 points

39 comments1 min readLW link

New Relationship Energy as an Emotional Bias

squidiousJul 8, 2017, 7:00 AM

3 points

0 comments2 min readLW link

(www.blogger.com)

Models of human relationships—tools to understand people

EloJul 29, 2017, 3:31 AM

30 points

27 comments22 min readLW link

Use concrete language to improve your communication in relationships

EloOct 19, 2017, 3:46 AM

10 points

2 comments3 min readLW link

[Question] Weighting Attachment in Relationship Decisions

wolverdudeMar 5, 2020, 6:04 AM

12 points

2 comments5 min readLW link

Diversify Your Friendship Portfolio

Davis_KingsleyJul 9, 2019, 11:06 PM

74 points

13 comments2 min readLW link

Friendship is utilitarian

KatjaGraceDec 3, 2015, 1:00 AM

1 point

0 comments1 min readLW link

Friendship and happiness generation

AlexMennenNov 25, 2011, 8:52 PM

1 point

5 comments1 min readLW link

On Gender and Emotional Support

squidiousMay 7, 2018, 10:37 PM

17 points

3 comments5 min readLW link

Categorizing Love: How having more words for love might make it less scary

squidiousApr 5, 2018, 11:10 PM

15 points

2 comments3 min readLW link

(opalsandbonobos.blogspot.com)

Therapy vs emotional support

squidiousSep 23, 2019, 7:00 PM

16 points

2 comments4 min readLW link

(opalsandbonobos.blogspot.com)

When Having Friends is More Alluring than Being Right (by Ferrett Steinmetz)

CronoDASJul 30, 2019, 9:58 AM

19 points

8 comments1 min readLW link

(www.theferrett.com)

Post-college: changing nature of friend interactions

calcsamJan 9, 2013, 10:26 PM

27 points

8 comments2 min readLW link

How to understand people better

pwnoOct 14, 2011, 7:53 PM

101 points

163 comments5 min readLW link

How I apply (so-called) Non-Violent Communication

Kaj_SotalaMay 15, 2023, 9:56 AM

85 points

28 comments3 min readLW link

Trust develops gradually via making bids and setting boundaries

Richard_NgoMay 19, 2023, 10:16 PM

134 points

12 comments4 min readLW link

Letting Others Be Vulnerable

lifelonglearnerNov 19, 2018, 2:59 AM

34 points

6 comments7 min readLW link

New Post version 1 (please read this ONLY if your last name beings with a–k)

lukeprogJul 27, 2011, 9:57 PM

40 points

87 comments5 min readLW link

New Post version 2 (please read this ONLY if your last name beings with l–z)

lukeprogJul 27, 2011, 9:57 PM

14 points

186 comments5 min readLW link

My Greatest Achievement

Swimmer963 (Miranda Dixon-Luinenburg) Sep 12, 2011, 7:26 PM

47 points

28 comments7 min readLW link

A Protocol for Optimizing Affection

[deleted]May 30, 2012, 12:38 AM

41 points

114 comments4 min readLW link

Do Women Like Assholes?

Jacob FalkovichJun 22, 2020, 2:14 AM

30 points

10 comments17 min readLW link

Conflict, the Rules of Engagement, and Professionalism

habrykaSep 5, 2020, 5:04 AM

47 points

3 comments7 min readLW link

EA Relationship Status

jefftkSep 19, 2020, 1:50 AM

28 points

16 comments1 min readLW link

(www.jefftk.com)

Charisma is a Force Multiplier

Davis_KingsleyOct 11, 2020, 10:21 AM

39 points

10 comments2 min readLW link

The Dunbar Playbook: A CRM system for your friends

Severin T. SeehrichAug 15, 2023, 8:44 AM

32 points

16 comments5 min readLW link

(amoretlicentia.substack.com)

Dating Roundup #1: This is Why You’re Single

ZviAug 29, 2023, 12:50 PM

87 points

28 comments38 min readLW link

(thezvi.wordpress.com)

Stop trying to have “interesting” friends

eqApr 19, 2023, 11:39 PM

42 points

15 comments6 min readLW link

Triumph & Hope: How Far Humanity Has Come

RubyFeb 21, 2021, 6:07 PM

23 points

0 comments5 min readLW link

(jesswhittlestone.com)

My Marriage Vows

Vanessa KosoyJul 21, 2021, 10:48 AM

84 points

53 comments3 min readLW link

Comments on Jacob Falkovich on loneliness

Alex FlintSep 16, 2021, 10:04 PM

29 points

9 comments16 min readLW link

Easily Top 20%

Jacob FalkovichSep 29, 2021, 6:24 PM

39 points

0 comments10 min readLW link

Impressive vs honest signaling

Adam ZernerOct 26, 2021, 7:16 AM

31 points

12 comments7 min readLW link

Sex Versus

Jacob FalkovichJan 5, 2022, 5:38 PM

14 points

12 comments3 min readLW link

Consensual Hostility

Jacob FalkovichJan 5, 2022, 5:40 PM

10 points

2 comments3 min readLW link

10 Reasons You’re Lazy About Dating

Jacob FalkovichJan 5, 2022, 5:43 PM

6 points

5 comments7 min readLW link

How satisfied should you expect to be with your partner?

VaniverFeb 22, 2022, 11:27 PM

102 points

7 comments3 min readLW link 2 reviews

Gracefully correcting uncalibrated shame

AF2022May 11, 2022, 7:51 PM

−31 points

34 comments4 min readLW link

Perils of optimizing in social contexts

owencbJun 16, 2022, 5:40 PM

50 points

1 comment2 min readLW link

[Question] Are long-form dating profiles productive?

AABoylesJun 27, 2022, 5:03 PM

34 points

32 comments1 min readLW link

Notes on Love

David GrossJul 13, 2022, 11:35 PM

18 points

3 comments29 min readLW link

A blog post is a very long and complex search query to find fascinating people and make them route interesting stuff to your inbox

Henrik KarlssonOct 5, 2022, 7:07 PM

89 points

12 comments11 min readLW link

(escapingflatland.substack.com)

[Question] [Personal Question] Can anyone help me navigate this potentially painful interpersonal dynamic rationally?

SlainLadyMondegreenNov 17, 2022, 8:53 AM

9 points

3 comments4 min readLW link

Why Are Women Hot?

Jacob FalkovichDec 18, 2022, 11:20 PM

17 points

19 comments11 min readLW link

Effective ways to find love?

anonymoususerDec 28, 2022, 8:46 PM

9 points

6 comments1 min readLW link

“Status” can be corrosive; here’s how I handle it

Orpheus16Jan 24, 2023, 1:25 AM

71 points

8 comments6 min readLW link

Sex is Good, Actually

Gordon Seidoh WorleyFeb 5, 2023, 6:33 AM

41 points

8 comments4 min readLW link

In Defense of Chatbot Romance

Kaj_SotalaFeb 11, 2023, 2:30 PM

123 points

52 comments11 min readLW link

(kajsotala.fi)

Building and Entertaining Couples

Jacob FalkovichFeb 22, 2023, 7:02 PM

85 points

11 comments4 min readLW link

Ways of being with you

KatjaGraceFeb 5, 2021, 7:00 AM

7 points

2 comments1 min readLW link

(worldspiritsockpuppet.com)

Notes on Empathy

David GrossMay 3, 2022, 4:06 AM

27 points

2 comments57 min readLW link

Be Nice to Non-Rationalists

wobster109May 7, 2013, 2:27 AM

43 points

27 comments2 min readLW link

Human-AI Relationality is Already Here

bridgebotFeb 20, 2025, 7:08 AM

11 points

0 comments15 min readLW link

MonoPoly Restricted Trust

ymeskhoutJan 2, 2024, 11:02 PM

42 points

37 comments9 min readLW link

The State of Affairs

Jacob FalkovichMay 3, 2019, 4:18 PM

33 points

0 comments14 min readLW link

How my social skills went from horrible to mediocre

JonahSMay 19, 2015, 11:29 PM

50 points

199 comments11 min readLW link

Relationship Orientations

DaystarEldFeb 24, 2023, 7:43 PM

37 points

1 comment3 min readLW link

(daystareld.com)

The Inner Ring by C. S. Lewis

Saul MunnApr 24, 2024, 10:48 PM

69 points

6 comments13 min readLW link

(www.lewissociety.org)

Mitigating Social Awkwardness

CayenneMay 1, 2011, 12:54 AM

36 points

162 comments3 min readLW link

The Power to Be Emotionally Mature

LironSep 16, 2019, 2:41 AM

34 points

2 comments4 min readLW link

I’m becoming intolerant. Help.

loup-vaillantJun 30, 2011, 3:30 PM

34 points

85 comments1 min readLW link

Raw Post: Talking With My Brother

DirectedEvolutionJul 13, 2019, 2:57 AM

23 points

6 comments5 min readLW link

On Emotional Responsibility & Abuse

devasApr 24, 2018, 12:50 PM

10 points

8 comments3 min readLW link

(landofwindandskyscrapers.tumblr.com)

Kelly Bet on Everything

Jacob FalkovichJul 10, 2020, 2:48 AM

101 points

20 comments5 min readLW link 2 reviews

The Golem

Kaj_SotalaMar 7, 2009, 6:32 PM

17 points

9 comments1 min readLW link

Using machine learning to predict romantic compatibility: empirical results

JonahSDec 17, 2014, 2:54 AM

37 points

18 comments11 min readLW link

Gold, Silver, Red: A color scheme for understanding people

Michael SoareverixMar 13, 2023, 1:06 AM

17 points

2 comments4 min readLW link

Guidelines for cold messaging people

Severin T. SeehrichJan 17, 2022, 12:07 PM

35 points

21 comments1 min readLW link

Camaraderie at scale: in search of shared identity

eqApr 24, 2023, 4:46 PM

8 points

2 comments8 min readLW link

Be more effective by learning important practical knowledge using flashcards

StenemoOct 12, 2022, 6:05 PM

5 points

2 comments1 min readLW link

Shittests are actually good

snog toddgrassSep 24, 2020, 5:20 PM

−11 points

23 comments2 min readLW link

Overcoming the MWC

Mark FreedJul 25, 2023, 5:31 PM

3 points

0 comments3 min readLW link

AI romantic partners will harm society if they go unregulated

Roman LeventovAug 1, 2023, 9:32 AM

25 points

76 comments13 min readLW link

Love and Rationality: Less Wrongers on OKCupid

RelsquiOct 11, 2010, 6:35 AM

26 points

337 comments9 min readLW link

Does playing hard to get work? AB testing for romance

amplemapleOct 26, 2020, 3:29 PM

17 points

26 comments5 min readLW link

Go F*** Someone

Jacob FalkovichJan 15, 2020, 6:39 PM

19 points

23 comments8 min readLW link

Relationship Outcomes Are Not Particularly Sensitive to Small Variations in Verbal Ability

Zack_M_DavisFeb 9, 2020, 12:34 AM

14 points

2 comments1 min readLW link

(zackmdavis.net)

Mate selection for the men here

rhollerithJun 3, 2009, 11:05 PM

13 points

114 comments3 min readLW link

That You’d Tell All Your Friends

Eliezer YudkowskyMar 1, 2009, 12:04 PM

8 points

53 comments1 min readLW link

In Defense of Unreliability

ozymandiasSep 22, 2017, 3:46 PM

9 points

21 comments4 min readLW link

The Wrongness Iceberg

alfredmacdonaldFeb 4, 2013, 9:02 AM

30 points

27 comments2 min readLW link

Think in Terms of Actions, not Attributes

CollisteruNov 11, 2020, 3:57 PM

7 points

5 comments1 min readLW link

Avoid large group discussions in your social events

RomanHaukssonFeb 15, 2023, 9:05 PM

36 points

1 comment4 min readLW link

[Question] Places to meet interesting middle-aged men?

anon_girlSep 23, 2023, 7:06 PM

18 points

6 comments1 min readLW link

[Question] A Tale of Two Intelligences: xRisk, AI, and My Relationship

xRiskAnon923Apr 10, 2023, 11:35 PM

2 points

6 comments1 min readLW link

Relational Agency: Consistently Reaching Out

Jonathan MoregårdMar 13, 2024, 2:34 PM

16 points

0 comments5 min readLW link

(open.substack.com)

Why Attitudes Matter

ozymandiasSep 21, 2017, 3:07 PM

19 points

5 comments4 min readLW link

The impact of you is determined by them.

Munkh-Ochir Soyol-ErdeneDec 10, 2020, 10:01 PM

−1 points

1 comment1 min readLW link

Asking For Help

Neel NandaDec 27, 2020, 11:32 AM

23 points

5 comments12 min readLW link

(neelnanda.io)

Soulmate Fermi Estimate + My A(ltr)u[t]istic Mating Strategy

Jordan ArelOct 12, 2023, 8:32 AM

0 points

9 comments3 min readLW link

How To Socialize With Psycho(logist)s

SableOct 20, 2023, 11:33 AM

37 points

11 comments3 min readLW link

(affablyevil.substack.com)

[Question] Dating in 2023 sucks. Why isn’t AI helping?

Andreas ChrysopoulosOct 16, 2023, 12:31 PM

5 points

24 comments1 min readLW link

Sophie Grouchy on A Build-Break Model of Cooperation

weftMay 25, 2018, 2:55 PM

25 points

6 comments8 min readLW link

(sophiegrouchy.wordpress.com)

How to Support Someone Who is Struggling

David ZellerMar 11, 2023, 6:52 PM

76 points

13 comments5 min readLW link

Inverse Problems In Everyday Life

silentbobOct 15, 2024, 11:42 AM

14 points

2 comments8 min readLW link

[Question] How do you concisely communicate & navigate the politics / culture at your job working at a large corporation or institution?

WillaJul 12, 2022, 3:22 AM

10 points

6 comments1 min readLW link

Modelling Social Exchange: A Systematised Method to Judge Friendship Quality

Wynn WalkerAug 4, 2024, 6:49 PM

6 points

0 comments5 min readLW link

My Dating Plan ala Geoffrey Miller

snog toddgrassJul 17, 2020, 4:52 AM

2 points

57 comments3 min readLW link

The Typical Sex Life Fallacy

ozymandiasOct 7, 2017, 9:48 PM

44 points

30 comments5 min readLW link

More art, less stink: Taking the PU out of PUA

XFrequentistSep 10, 2010, 12:25 AM

89 points

639 comments3 min readLW link

Winning is for Losers

Jacob FalkovichOct 11, 2017, 4:01 AM

31 points

12 comments18 min readLW link

(putanumonit.com)

[Question] Why are people so bad at dating?

XodarapOct 28, 2019, 2:32 PM

66 points

61 comments2 min readLW link

Require contributions in advance

ViliamFeb 8, 2016, 12:55 PM

96 points

27 comments7 min readLW link

How to Make Billions of Dollars Reducing Loneliness

John_MaxwellAug 30, 2019, 5:30 PM

60 points

32 comments7 min readLW link

Rationality Lessons Learned from Irrational Adventures in Romance

lukeprogOct 4, 2011, 2:45 AM

69 points

616 comments6 min readLW link

Unknown knowns: Why did you choose to be monogamous?

WrongBotJun 26, 2010, 2:50 AM

69 points

669 comments3 min readLW link

I am Bad at Flirting; Realizing that by Noticing Confusion

snog toddgrassJun 30, 2020, 8:05 PM

8 points

7 comments4 min readLW link

The Skewed and the Screwed: When Mating Meets Politics

Jacob FalkovichJan 29, 2020, 3:50 PM

62 points

6 comments15 min readLW link 1 review

Communication strategies for autism, with examples

stoneflyMay 3, 2023, 5:25 AM

16 points

2 comments7 min readLW link

Entitlement, Covert Contracts, Social Libertarianism, and Related Concepts

ozymandiasNov 17, 2017, 7:00 PM

22 points

21 comments7 min readLW link

Newcomb’s problem happened to me

AcademianMar 26, 2010, 6:31 PM

51 points

99 comments3 min readLW link

Whose reasoning can you rely on when your own is faulty?

weftFeb 18, 2018, 10:41 PM

29 points

1 comment2 min readLW link

Personhood is a Religious Belief

jan SijanMay 3, 2023, 4:16 PM

−41 points

28 comments6 min readLW link

[Question] If I adapted reciprocity.io for Instagram, would you be more inclined to use it?

Yoyo YMay 7, 2023, 4:54 PM

1 point

0 comments1 min readLW link

(www.reciprocity.io)

Let them eat cake: Interpersonal Problems vs Tasks

HughRistikOct 7, 2009, 4:35 PM

96 points

575 comments4 min readLW link

Worth keeping

KatjaGraceDec 7, 2018, 4:50 AM

51 points

9 comments2 min readLW link

(meteuphoric.com)

On Enjoying Disagreeable Company

AlicornMay 26, 2010, 1:47 AM

68 points

254 comments7 min readLW link

Dispel your justification-monkey with a “HWA!”

MalcolmOceanJan 24, 2018, 4:51 AM

21 points

15 comments5 min readLW link

[Question] What determines female romantic “market value”?

anon_girlJan 16, 2023, 6:45 PM

16 points

50 comments1 min readLW link

Premortem as communication device (e.g. in relationship)

becausecuriousApr 4, 2022, 6:53 PM

8 points

1 comment3 min readLW link

Magic is Dead, Give me Attention

HazardJul 10, 2019, 8:15 PM

40 points

13 comments5 min readLW link

Decision Auctions aka “How to fairly assign chores, or decide who gets the last cookie”

daenerysJan 21, 2014, 9:13 PM

60 points

59 comments3 min readLW link

Kegan and Cultivating Compassion

lifelonglearnerMar 11, 2018, 1:32 AM

18 points

4 comments6 min readLW link

Reveal Culture

MalcolmOceanJul 25, 2020, 3:36 AM

92 points

18 comments7 min readLW link 2 reviews

An Apology is a Surrender

Zachary JacobiJan 18, 2018, 12:06 AM

22 points

17 comments5 min readLW link

‘oy, girls on lw, want to get together some time?’

MBlumeOct 2, 2009, 10:50 AM

38 points

184 comments1 min readLW link

Strategies and tools for getting through a break up

lululuMay 18, 2015, 6:01 PM

63 points

45 comments11 min readLW link

A Rationalist Guide to OkCupid

Jacob FalkovichFeb 3, 2016, 8:50 PM

41 points

66 comments1 min readLW link

Against Love Languages

Ben PaceDec 29, 2017, 9:51 AM

19 points

9 comments2 min readLW link

Taking the awkwardness out of a Prenup—A Game Theoretic solution

VijayKrishnanMay 22, 2010, 12:45 AM

42 points

111 comments4 min readLW link

Introduction to Modern Dating: Strategic Dating Advice for beginners

Jesper LindholmJul 20, 2024, 3:45 PM

5 points

6 comments13 min readLW link

Polyamory is Rational(ist)

Jacob FalkovichOct 18, 2019, 4:48 PM

23 points

2 comments1 min readLW link

(putanumonit.com)

Acausal romance

lukeprogFeb 25, 2012, 9:13 AM

40 points

37 comments1 min readLW link

To what degree do you model people as agents?

Swimmer963 (Miranda Dixon-Luinenburg) Aug 25, 2013, 7:29 PM

47 points

132 comments5 min readLW link

Applied cognitive science: learning from a faux pas

Kaj_SotalaDec 4, 2010, 11:15 AM

42 points

6 comments4 min readLW link

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