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In­ter­nal Fam­ily Systems

TagLast edit: May 1, 2022, 7:51 PM by Kaj_Sotala

Internal Family Systems, or IFS, is a family therapy-descended model of the psyche and psychotherapy method based on the idea that the mind is split between parts called exiles, managers, and firefighters. Therapy consists of methods for allowing these parts to “talk” to each other so, for example, exiles can be reintegrated.

Building up to an Internal Family Systems model offers a more thorough introduction to the IFS model.

For a related technique developed by CFAR, see Internal Double Crux. Rather than thinking of the mind as an entity with one set of goals and beliefs, IFS includes many independently acting components, each of which might have varying goals and beliefs; see subagents for the more general form of this idea.

Build­ing up to an In­ter­nal Fam­ily Sys­tems model

Kaj_SotalaJan 26, 2019, 12:25 PM
288 points
86 comments28 min readLW link2 reviews

Ten­ta­tively con­sid­er­ing emo­tional sto­ries (IFS and “get­ting into Self”)

Kaj_SotalaNov 30, 2018, 7:40 AM
40 points
31 comments4 min readLW link
(kajsotala.fi)

On In­ter­nal Fam­ily Sys­tems and multi-agent minds: a re­ply to PJ Eby

Kaj_SotalaOct 29, 2019, 2:56 PM
41 points
31 comments25 min readLW link

Book sum­mary: Un­lock­ing the Emo­tional Brain

Kaj_SotalaOct 8, 2019, 7:11 PM
331 points
48 comments21 min readLW link3 reviews

My cur­rent take on In­ter­nal Fam­ily Sys­tems “parts”

Kaj_SotalaJun 26, 2022, 5:40 PM
95 points
11 comments3 min readLW link
(kajsotala.fi)

Re­solv­ing in­ter­nal con­flicts re­quires listen­ing to what parts want

Richard_NgoMay 19, 2023, 12:04 AM
64 points
0 comments4 min readLW link

Trans­lat­ing CFAR to Therapy

squidiousSep 26, 2017, 7:00 AM
27 points
1 comment5 min readLW link
(www.blogger.com)

In­te­grat­ing dis­agree­ing subagents

Kaj_SotalaMay 14, 2019, 2:06 PM
147 points
15 comments21 min readLW link

CFAR Take­aways: An­drew Critch

RaemonFeb 14, 2024, 1:37 AM
217 points
64 comments5 min readLW link

Subagents, akra­sia, and co­her­ence in humans

Kaj_SotalaMar 25, 2019, 2:24 PM
140 points
31 comments16 min readLW link

Subagents, in­tro­spec­tive aware­ness, and blending

Kaj_SotalaMar 2, 2019, 12:53 PM
110 points
19 comments9 min readLW link

Men­tal Mountains

Scott AlexanderNov 27, 2019, 5:30 AM
156 points
14 comments15 min readLW link1 review
(slatestarcodex.com)

City of Lights

AlicornMar 31, 2010, 11:30 PM
55 points
43 comments4 min readLW link

How to Write Deep Characters

Eliezer YudkowskyJun 16, 2013, 2:10 AM
69 points
67 comments3 min readLW link

Forc­ing your­self to keep your iden­tity small is self-harm

Gordon Seidoh WorleyApr 3, 2021, 2:03 PM
40 points
10 comments2 min readLW link

Prepar­ing for ambition

Adam ZernerJul 19, 2021, 6:13 AM
19 points
8 comments10 min readLW link

Many ther­apy schools work with in­ner mul­ti­plic­ity (not just IFS)

Sep 17, 2022, 10:27 AM
52 points
16 comments18 min readLW link

In­ter­nal com­mu­ni­ca­tion framework

Nov 15, 2022, 12:41 PM
38 points
13 comments12 min readLW link

The Slack Dou­ble Crux, or how to ne­go­ti­ate with yourself

Thac0Jun 8, 2024, 3:22 PM
6 points
2 comments4 min readLW link

The nat­u­ral bound­aries be­tween people

ChipmonkFeb 23, 2024, 1:09 AM
23 points
2 comments8 min readLW link
(chipmonk.substack.com)

Pro­gram­ming an IFS for al­ter­nate uses

SilverFlameApr 29, 2023, 12:25 AM
5 points
0 comments1 min readLW link

I bet ev­ery­one 1000€ that I can make them dra­mat­i­cally hap­pier & cure their de­pres­sion in 3 months!

EternallyBlissfulJun 4, 2023, 12:30 PM
4 points
11 comments9 min readLW link

Two Ways To Re­duce Un­hap­piness That Comes From Dis­torted Views of Reality

Anne HsuJun 8, 2023, 5:43 PM
3 points
0 comments7 min readLW link

Co­her­ence Ther­apy with LLMs—quick demo

ChipmonkAug 14, 2023, 3:34 AM
19 points
11 comments1 min readLW link

A Clearer Think­ing tool that teaches you to use In­ter­nal Fam­ily Sys­tems concepts

spencergApr 28, 2023, 1:42 PM
31 points
1 comment1 min readLW link
(programs.clearerthinking.org)

[Question] Us­ing ChatGPT for mem­ory re­con­soli­da­tion?

warrenjordanApr 13, 2023, 1:27 AM
3 points
2 comments1 min readLW link

What fuels your am­bi­tion?

CissyJan 31, 2024, 6:30 PM
29 points
1 comment5 min readLW link
(www.moremyself.xyz)

Dice De­ci­sion Making

Bart BussmannMar 10, 2023, 1:01 PM
20 points
14 comments3 min readLW link