This is cool. It comes up with meta-contrarianism. There’s another concept I might write up that goes something like, “you don’t always have to name the concept you’re defending.”
For example, I wanted to do a meetup on why gen z men are more religious in celebration of International Men’s Day.
Just think of how the two topics in that sentence interact. It’s more likely I’m going to have a meetup on “whether it’s okay to have a meetup about International Men’s Day” than anything. And if I wanted to promote men in any broad sense, it seems like doing the topic without mentioning International Men’s Day is an entirely acceptable and useful idea. So it’s a “choose your battles” thing. If I think having a big argument about International Men’s Day is a good payout, then I can do that, but it’s definitely not, so don’t.
I’ve found this on reddit… sometimes it’s easier to defend capitalism by just explaining capitalism at least as I understand it without actually saying capitalism. That last battle where I get them to understand that they just agreed with a capitalist analysis nips in the bud some open mindedness we had just worked to create.
My only eyebrow-raise was at all the wealthier people who go to AA. There are a lot of broke-ass people at AA. If you can acquire alcohol you can get to an AA meeting.
Bigger question: is it a generally difficult problem to analyze like, “this thing claims to help, but only people who are motivated will do it, so we can’t really tell if it further acts positively on motivated people or if it’s a total useless thing?” Like if I’m motivated to learn and I read a book and get smarter you wouldn’t exactly say the book did nothing, even if the main thing is the motivation level of the learner, not the availability of the book.