Could this be solved just by posting your work and then immediately sharing the link with people you specifically want feedback from? That way there’s no expectation that they would have already seen it. (Granted, this is slightly different from a gdoc in that you can share a gdoc with one person, get their feedback, then share with another person, while what I suggested requires asking everyone you want feedback from all at once.)
Thanks for the idea! I agree that it probably helps, and it solves my issue with the state of knowledge of the other.
That being said, I don’t feel like this solves my main problem: it still feel to me as pushing too hard. Here the reason is that I post on a small venue (rarely more than a few posts per day) that I know the people I’m asking feedback too read regularly. So if I send them such a message at the moment I publish, it feels a bit like I’m saying that they wouldn’t read and comment it without that, which is a bit of a problem.
(I’m interested to know if researchers on the AF agree with that feeling, or if it’s just a weird thing that only exists in my head. When I try to think about being at the other end of such a message, I see myself as annoyed, at the very least).
Could this be solved just by posting your work and then immediately sharing the link with people you specifically want feedback from? That way there’s no expectation that they would have already seen it. (Granted, this is slightly different from a gdoc in that you can share a gdoc with one person, get their feedback, then share with another person, while what I suggested requires asking everyone you want feedback from all at once.)
Thanks for the idea! I agree that it probably helps, and it solves my issue with the state of knowledge of the other.
That being said, I don’t feel like this solves my main problem: it still feel to me as pushing too hard. Here the reason is that I post on a small venue (rarely more than a few posts per day) that I know the people I’m asking feedback too read regularly. So if I send them such a message at the moment I publish, it feels a bit like I’m saying that they wouldn’t read and comment it without that, which is a bit of a problem.
(I’m interested to know if researchers on the AF agree with that feeling, or if it’s just a weird thing that only exists in my head. When I try to think about being at the other end of such a message, I see myself as annoyed, at the very least).