Thanks for the idea! I agree that it probably helps, and it solves my issue with the state of knowledge of the other.
That being said, I don’t feel like this solves my main problem: it still feel to me as pushing too hard. Here the reason is that I post on a small venue (rarely more than a few posts per day) that I know the people I’m asking feedback too read regularly. So if I send them such a message at the moment I publish, it feels a bit like I’m saying that they wouldn’t read and comment it without that, which is a bit of a problem.
(I’m interested to know if researchers on the AF agree with that feeling, or if it’s just a weird thing that only exists in my head. When I try to think about being at the other end of such a message, I see myself as annoyed, at the very least).
Thanks for the idea! I agree that it probably helps, and it solves my issue with the state of knowledge of the other.
That being said, I don’t feel like this solves my main problem: it still feel to me as pushing too hard. Here the reason is that I post on a small venue (rarely more than a few posts per day) that I know the people I’m asking feedback too read regularly. So if I send them such a message at the moment I publish, it feels a bit like I’m saying that they wouldn’t read and comment it without that, which is a bit of a problem.
(I’m interested to know if researchers on the AF agree with that feeling, or if it’s just a weird thing that only exists in my head. When I try to think about being at the other end of such a message, I see myself as annoyed, at the very least).