is this what oppression feels like? i can’t write a comment reply to the daenerys post because it’s like the subculture i’m in is so trigger-happy with demonization that i’m too afraid to even try to move them
...ish? Kinda? Not really, it’s more like the experience you’re describing maps to an occasional part of what oppression feels like—but it captures only a very narrow slice of the picture. It would be like touching your own arm, and then wondering if this is what sex feels like.
I for one would like to hear what you have to say about the post, and I won’t downvote you. If you don’t want to get down voted by others, send me a PM and I promise I will read it thoughtfully no matter what my intuitive response is.
is this what oppression feels like? i can’t write a comment reply to the daenerys post because it’s like the subculture i’m in is so trigger-happy with demonization that i’m too afraid to even try to move them
Yes, that is what oppression feels like. (Albeit it is oppression only within a community that does not form a significant part of your life.)
This is no comment either way about whether or not people’s treatment (or expected treatment) of your comments is undesirable or inappropriate. I haven’t seen them and have very little inclination to personally get involved (or read) this post given the politics vs insight ratio the subject produces. Nevertheless, and right or wrong, what you experience can be accurately described as what oppression feels like.
Oppression? No. Calling these sorts of incidents ‘oppression’ trivializes the suffering of the disenfranchised millions who live in daily fear of beatings, lynching or rape because of their religion or ethnicity, and must try to survive while knowing that others can rob them and destroy their possessions with impunity and they have no legal recourse. You might as well call having to shake hands with a man you don’t like ‘rape’.
Incidents on the level of those mentioned here are inevitable in any society that has even the slightest degree of diversity. Everyone has been treated badly by members of a different group at some point in their life, and responsible adults are expected to get over it and get on with things.
Everyone has been treated badly by members of a different group at some point in their life, and responsible adults are expected to get over it and get on with things.
This may be the way now, but it doesn’t have to be the way always. Max Hastings, my favourite WW2 historian, says in his All Hell Let Loose:
One of the most important truths about the war, as indeed about all human affairs, is that people can interpret what happens to them only in the context of their own circumstances. The fact that, objectively and statistically, the sufferings of some individuals were less terrible than those of others elsewhere in the world was meaningless to those concerned. It would have seemed monstrous to a British or American soldier facing a mortar barrage, with his comrades dying around him, to be told that Russian casualties were many times greater. It would have been insulting to invite a hungry Frenchman, or even an English housewife weary of the monotony of rations, to consider that in besieged Leningrad starving people were eating each other, while in West Bengal they were selling their daughters. Few people who endured the Luftwaffe’s 1940–41 blitz on London would have been comforted by knowledge that the German and Japanese peoples would later face losses from Allied bombing many times greater, together with unparalleled devastation. It is the duty and privilege of historians to deploy relativism in a fashion that cannot be expected of contemporary participants.
In other words, a boy being bullied at school or a girl shrinking in disgust and fear from a drunken man’s cat-call do experience suffering and negative emotion on their own scale of awfulness—and the fact that millions of people in the 3rd world have it much worse “objectively” doesn’t take away from the trauma of a “minor” incident in a happier life.
Of course, the objectively worse suffering in the 3rd world should be dealt with as a higher priority. But this doesn’t mean that, given a choice of spending a bit of resources and attention on relief from such “minor” evils (at a low enough alternative cost), we should tell their victims: “Stop whining, we don’t care.”
If we stop aspiring to treat every individual according to our ideals—as sacred, an end in themselves—then there’s no Schelling point to stop at; we might as well come to some absurd hedonic utilitarianism, painting smiles on souls, or overwriting people’s brains with a simple utility function, or such! Did you, perchance, choose specks on torture vs. specks? If you did, please think and reflect hard before discounting “minor” oppression.
Another angle on context: when I was a kid, I read a book by a holocaust survivor. Towards the end, she wrote about her current situation, which included being worried about heart disease.
I remember being surprised, and then realizing that I’d assumed that if you’d been through the holocaust, nothing much smaller could frighten you, and that my assumption was wrong.
The problem with this seemingly high-minded ideal is that every intervention has a cost, and they add up quickly. When oppression is blatant, violent and extreme it’s relatively easy to identify, the benefits of mitigating it are large, and the cost to society is low. But when the ‘oppression’ is subtle and weak, consisting primarily of personal conversations or even private thoughts of individuals, the reverse is true. You find yourself restricting freedom of speech, religion and association, creating an expanding maze of ever-more-draconian laws governing every aspect of life, throwing out core legal principles like innocent until proven guilty and the right to confront one’s accusers—and even then, success is unlikely.
Another important factor is the fact that those who consider themselves victims will never be satisfied, and indeed this whole campaign in their name quickly ceases to improve their lives to any measurable degree. As you noted yourself, individuals tend to rate the trauma of an unpleasant incident relative to their own experiences. So once you stamp out the big, easily measured objective forms of oppression, you find yourself on a treadmill where working harder and harder to suppress the little stuff doesn’t do any good. Each generation feels that they’re as oppressed as the one before, even if objectively things have changed dramatically in their favor. The only way off the treadmill is for the ‘victim’ group to stop viewing every experience through the lens of imagined oppression.
So once you stamp out the big, easily measured objective forms of oppression, you find yourself on a treadmill where working harder and harder to suppress the little stuff doesn’t do any good. Each generation feels that they’re as oppressed as the one before, even if objectively things have changed dramatically in their favor. The only way off the treadmill is for the ‘victim’ group to stop viewing every experience through the lens of imagined oppression.
Do you seriously think that proves we shouldn’t try to stop what we asses to be “oppression”? Diminishing returns do not equal zero returns.
You either missed the point of the grandparent, or are missing some of the prerequisite concepts needed to think clearly about this subject, it seems to me.
I’m quite certain that Multiheaded is well aware of the law of diminishing returns and its implications, and has a fairly good grasp of how to do expected utility evaluations. Everything else you said in your post was, AFAICT, already all stated or implied by the grandparent, except:
Another important factor is the fact that those who consider themselves victims will never be satisfied, and indeed this whole campaign in their name quickly ceases to improve their lives to any measurable degree.
I find this claim dubious. I consider myself a victim of the oppressive historical patriarchy and dominance of gender-typing, and yet I’m fully satisfied with the current, ongoing efforts and measures that people all around the world are doing to fix it, as well as my own personal involvement and the efforts of my close circles.
You find yourself restricting freedom of speech, religion and association, creating an expanding maze of ever-more-draconian laws governing every aspect of life, throwing out core legal principles like innocent until proven guilty and the right to confront one’s accusers—and even then, success is unlikely.
Those are not particularly convincing examples of Good Principles that we’d want to have in an ideal society that we should aspire towards. My own brain is screeching at the first three in particular, and finds the named legal principles crude and unrefined when compared to other ideals to aspire to.
You don’t think freedom of speech, religion and association are important things for a society to defend? Well, in that case we don’t have much to talk about.
I will, however, suggest that you might do well to spend some time thinking about what your ideal society will be like after the principle that society (i.e. government) can dictate what people say, think and do to promote the social cause of the day becomes firmly entrenched. Do you really think your personal ideology will retain control of the government forever? What happens if a political group with views you oppose gets in power?
I will, however, suggest that you might do well to spend some time thinking about what your ideal society will be like after the principle that society (i.e. government) can dictate what people say, think and do to promote the social cause of the day becomes firmly entrenched. Do you really think your personal ideology will retain control of the government forever? What happens if a political group with views you oppose gets in power?
False dilemma. You’re also strawmanning my argument.
Freedom of religion is trivially equivalent to freedom of anti-epistemology. According to everything we know, it is extremely likely that only one set of beliefs can be true, and if so, there are clearly some that have more evidence supporting them. As such, “freedom to choose” which one set to believe is irrational and somewhat equivalent to trusting word-of-mouth rumours that fire does not harm you when you are naked.
Freedom of speech and freedom of association, in their current incarnations, are similarly problematic, though not as obviously so.
Absolute enforcement of these three freedoms is not required to avoid the failure modes of society that you enumerate, and I never mentioned that said ideal society would even remotely look like what’s contained withing your (apparently very tiny) hypothesis space of possible societies, let alone that my ideology would be the Rule of Law or that this society would even be composed of humans as we know them with all their flawed brains and flimsy squishy bits that give up and die way too fast.
In fairness, the claim that removing these freedoms is extremely dangerous isn’t the same as the claim that no conceivable society could function without them.
You may now continue with your regularly scheduled being right.
Each generation feels that they’re as oppressed as the one before
That has not been my impression. Some advocates might think things are as bad as they were 5 years ago, but I’m not aware of anyone with influence who thinks things are as bad as 50 years ago. Or any advocate at all who thinks no improvement has happened in the last 500 years.
His assertion is that if you scanned the brain of a victim 50 or 500 years ago you’d find the same amount of subjective “oppressed feeling” as scanning a modern victim, i.e., that people have an “oppression set point” similar to the happiness set point.
Well, 500 years ago there was plenty of brutal physical oppression going on, and I’d expect that kind of thing to have lots of other negative effects on top of the first-order emotional reactions of the victims.
But I would claim that if you did a big brain-scan survey of, say, Western women from 1970 to the present, you’d see very little correlation between their subjective feeling of oppression and their actual treatment in society.
He does have influence, but I don’t read that as saying things are as bad as they were in the 1950s. He’s pointing out that a lot of the power structure of the Confederacy is still around, to the point that imagining if the Confederates had won is less different from now than many folks ignorant of history believe.
Ta-Nehisi has written very pointedly about DT’s victory, but even then I don’t read him as saying things are the same as 50 years ago. Factually, I don’t see how anyone could claim that. Leading protest in 1950-1960s was literally life threatening. Blessedly, that doesn’t seem to be true in the present.
I’m not downvoting this comment because I don’t want to increase the chance of people being penalized for answering it.
From my point of view, you’re punishing Will because he’s learning something, but not quite in the way you want him to. He’s made himself somewhat vulnerable by asking a question.
Everyone has been treated badly by members of a different group at some point in their life, and responsible adults are expected to get over it and get on with things.
Depends on the venue. In some places, telling the truth about your internal states is valued more highly.
Oppression? No. Calling these sorts of incidents ‘oppression’ trivializes the suffering of the disenfranchised millions who live in daily fear of beatings, lynching or rape because of their religion or ethnicity, and must try to survive while knowing that others can rob them and destroy their possessions with impunity and they have no legal recourse. You might as well call having to shake hands with a man you don’t like ‘rape’.
I was going to upvote this until I got to the last sentence which seems both needlessly inflammatory and not accurate. The essential point you’ve made does however seem to have some validity: There’s a scale difference in different types of mistreatment, and using the same word for all of them is something that can easily cause connotative problems.
Everyone has been treated badly by members of a different group at some point in their life, and responsible adults are expected to get over it and get on with things.
Yes, but how common are those actions? For example, as someone who is of Ashkenazic Jewish descent in the US, I occasionally get mistreatment based on my obvious ethnic heritage. But such events are extremely rare- I can literally count the ones I remember on one hand. That’s distinct from some other groups- for example if I were a black man living in the US I’d likely have a list of incidents orders of magnitude larger.
Calling these sorts of incidents ‘oppression’ trivializes
Look more closely at the context, in particular the description of the experienced internal feeling and the resulting self-suppression of identity. Regarding triviality I refer you to the word “albeit” which prefaces a more than adequate acknowledgement of scope. You may further observe that I explicitly refrained from judging whether the treatment of Will was appropriate or not, much less to what degree it was inappropriate—because getting caught up with how “bad” the people are behaving to the person completely misses the point
You might as well call having to shake hands with a man you don’t like ‘rape’.
No. I might not. And not just because the scale of the outrage. Primarily because that implies that the man is a “rapist” when we have no indication that it is him who is forcing the other to have the hand shaking (or have sex). If neither the disliked man nor “you” wishes to have sex but for some reason you are coerced to have sex with each other then he is not raping you.
Constructive suggestion regarding the rest: PM someone (e.g. me?) who doesn’t seem to be being demonized or downvoted much in this article/thread and ask them if they’re willing to help by posting for you / reviewing / pointing out where people are likely to block while reading and just downvote you.
I know what you mean. As someone who knows women who have been raped and abused, I am disgusted and horrified by this post. I almost can’t believe LW is willing to tolerate such insensitivity.
is this what oppression feels like? i can’t write a comment reply to the daenerys post because it’s like the subculture i’m in is so trigger-happy with demonization that i’m too afraid to even try to move them
...ish? Kinda? Not really, it’s more like the experience you’re describing maps to an occasional part of what oppression feels like—but it captures only a very narrow slice of the picture. It would be like touching your own arm, and then wondering if this is what sex feels like.
I for one would like to hear what you have to say about the post, and I won’t downvote you. If you don’t want to get down voted by others, send me a PM and I promise I will read it thoughtfully no matter what my intuitive response is.
Yes, that is what oppression feels like. (Albeit it is oppression only within a community that does not form a significant part of your life.)
This is no comment either way about whether or not people’s treatment (or expected treatment) of your comments is undesirable or inappropriate. I haven’t seen them and have very little inclination to personally get involved (or read) this post given the politics vs insight ratio the subject produces. Nevertheless, and right or wrong, what you experience can be accurately described as what oppression feels like.
I agree.
Will, would you be willing to describe how this sort of social disapproval is different from the fun sort of disapproval of trolling?
Oppression? No. Calling these sorts of incidents ‘oppression’ trivializes the suffering of the disenfranchised millions who live in daily fear of beatings, lynching or rape because of their religion or ethnicity, and must try to survive while knowing that others can rob them and destroy their possessions with impunity and they have no legal recourse. You might as well call having to shake hands with a man you don’t like ‘rape’.
Incidents on the level of those mentioned here are inevitable in any society that has even the slightest degree of diversity. Everyone has been treated badly by members of a different group at some point in their life, and responsible adults are expected to get over it and get on with things.
This may be the way now, but it doesn’t have to be the way always. Max Hastings, my favourite WW2 historian, says in his All Hell Let Loose:
In other words, a boy being bullied at school or a girl shrinking in disgust and fear from a drunken man’s cat-call do experience suffering and negative emotion on their own scale of awfulness—and the fact that millions of people in the 3rd world have it much worse “objectively” doesn’t take away from the trauma of a “minor” incident in a happier life.
Of course, the objectively worse suffering in the 3rd world should be dealt with as a higher priority. But this doesn’t mean that, given a choice of spending a bit of resources and attention on relief from such “minor” evils (at a low enough alternative cost), we should tell their victims: “Stop whining, we don’t care.”
If we stop aspiring to treat every individual according to our ideals—as sacred, an end in themselves—then there’s no Schelling point to stop at; we might as well come to some absurd hedonic utilitarianism, painting smiles on souls, or overwriting people’s brains with a simple utility function, or such! Did you, perchance, choose specks on torture vs. specks? If you did, please think and reflect hard before discounting “minor” oppression.
Another angle on context: when I was a kid, I read a book by a holocaust survivor. Towards the end, she wrote about her current situation, which included being worried about heart disease.
I remember being surprised, and then realizing that I’d assumed that if you’d been through the holocaust, nothing much smaller could frighten you, and that my assumption was wrong.
The problem with this seemingly high-minded ideal is that every intervention has a cost, and they add up quickly. When oppression is blatant, violent and extreme it’s relatively easy to identify, the benefits of mitigating it are large, and the cost to society is low. But when the ‘oppression’ is subtle and weak, consisting primarily of personal conversations or even private thoughts of individuals, the reverse is true. You find yourself restricting freedom of speech, religion and association, creating an expanding maze of ever-more-draconian laws governing every aspect of life, throwing out core legal principles like innocent until proven guilty and the right to confront one’s accusers—and even then, success is unlikely.
Another important factor is the fact that those who consider themselves victims will never be satisfied, and indeed this whole campaign in their name quickly ceases to improve their lives to any measurable degree. As you noted yourself, individuals tend to rate the trauma of an unpleasant incident relative to their own experiences. So once you stamp out the big, easily measured objective forms of oppression, you find yourself on a treadmill where working harder and harder to suppress the little stuff doesn’t do any good. Each generation feels that they’re as oppressed as the one before, even if objectively things have changed dramatically in their favor. The only way off the treadmill is for the ‘victim’ group to stop viewing every experience through the lens of imagined oppression.
Do you seriously think that proves we shouldn’t try to stop what we asses to be “oppression”? Diminishing returns do not equal zero returns.
You either missed the point of the grandparent, or are missing some of the prerequisite concepts needed to think clearly about this subject, it seems to me.
I’m quite certain that Multiheaded is well aware of the law of diminishing returns and its implications, and has a fairly good grasp of how to do expected utility evaluations. Everything else you said in your post was, AFAICT, already all stated or implied by the grandparent, except:
I find this claim dubious. I consider myself a victim of the oppressive historical patriarchy and dominance of gender-typing, and yet I’m fully satisfied with the current, ongoing efforts and measures that people all around the world are doing to fix it, as well as my own personal involvement and the efforts of my close circles.
Those are not particularly convincing examples of Good Principles that we’d want to have in an ideal society that we should aspire towards. My own brain is screeching at the first three in particular, and finds the named legal principles crude and unrefined when compared to other ideals to aspire to.
You don’t think freedom of speech, religion and association are important things for a society to defend? Well, in that case we don’t have much to talk about.
I will, however, suggest that you might do well to spend some time thinking about what your ideal society will be like after the principle that society (i.e. government) can dictate what people say, think and do to promote the social cause of the day becomes firmly entrenched. Do you really think your personal ideology will retain control of the government forever? What happens if a political group with views you oppose gets in power?
False dilemma. You’re also strawmanning my argument.
Freedom of religion is trivially equivalent to freedom of anti-epistemology. According to everything we know, it is extremely likely that only one set of beliefs can be true, and if so, there are clearly some that have more evidence supporting them. As such, “freedom to choose” which one set to believe is irrational and somewhat equivalent to trusting word-of-mouth rumours that fire does not harm you when you are naked.
Freedom of speech and freedom of association, in their current incarnations, are similarly problematic, though not as obviously so.
Absolute enforcement of these three freedoms is not required to avoid the failure modes of society that you enumerate, and I never mentioned that said ideal society would even remotely look like what’s contained withing your (apparently very tiny) hypothesis space of possible societies, let alone that my ideology would be the Rule of Law or that this society would even be composed of humans as we know them with all their flawed brains and flimsy squishy bits that give up and die way too fast.
In fairness, the claim that removing these freedoms is extremely dangerous isn’t the same as the claim that no conceivable society could function without them.
You may now continue with your regularly scheduled being right.
That has not been my impression. Some advocates might think things are as bad as they were 5 years ago, but I’m not aware of anyone with influence who thinks things are as bad as 50 years ago. Or any advocate at all who thinks no improvement has happened in the last 500 years.
That wasn’t ewbrownv’s assertion.
His assertion is that if you scanned the brain of a victim 50 or 500 years ago you’d find the same amount of subjective “oppressed feeling” as scanning a modern victim, i.e., that people have an “oppression set point” similar to the happiness set point.
Well, 500 years ago there was plenty of brutal physical oppression going on, and I’d expect that kind of thing to have lots of other negative effects on top of the first-order emotional reactions of the victims.
But I would claim that if you did a big brain-scan survey of, say, Western women from 1970 to the present, you’d see very little correlation between their subjective feeling of oppression and their actual treatment in society.
Interesting to read this shortly after this. Does Ta-Nehisi Coates have “influence”?
He does have influence, but I don’t read that as saying things are as bad as they were in the 1950s. He’s pointing out that a lot of the power structure of the Confederacy is still around, to the point that imagining if the Confederates had won is less different from now than many folks ignorant of history believe.
Ta-Nehisi has written very pointedly about DT’s victory, but even then I don’t read him as saying things are the same as 50 years ago. Factually, I don’t see how anyone could claim that. Leading protest in 1950-1960s was literally life threatening. Blessedly, that doesn’t seem to be true in the present.
I’m not downvoting this comment because I don’t want to increase the chance of people being penalized for answering it.
From my point of view, you’re punishing Will because he’s learning something, but not quite in the way you want him to. He’s made himself somewhat vulnerable by asking a question.
Depends on the venue. In some places, telling the truth about your internal states is valued more highly.
I was going to upvote this until I got to the last sentence which seems both needlessly inflammatory and not accurate. The essential point you’ve made does however seem to have some validity: There’s a scale difference in different types of mistreatment, and using the same word for all of them is something that can easily cause connotative problems.
Yes, but how common are those actions? For example, as someone who is of Ashkenazic Jewish descent in the US, I occasionally get mistreatment based on my obvious ethnic heritage. But such events are extremely rare- I can literally count the ones I remember on one hand. That’s distinct from some other groups- for example if I were a black man living in the US I’d likely have a list of incidents orders of magnitude larger.
Look more closely at the context, in particular the description of the experienced internal feeling and the resulting self-suppression of identity. Regarding triviality I refer you to the word “albeit” which prefaces a more than adequate acknowledgement of scope. You may further observe that I explicitly refrained from judging whether the treatment of Will was appropriate or not, much less to what degree it was inappropriate—because getting caught up with how “bad” the people are behaving to the person completely misses the point
No. I might not. And not just because the scale of the outrage. Primarily because that implies that the man is a “rapist” when we have no indication that it is him who is forcing the other to have the hand shaking (or have sex). If neither the disliked man nor “you” wishes to have sex but for some reason you are coerced to have sex with each other then he is not raping you.
Not even close.
Constructive suggestion regarding the rest: PM someone (e.g. me?) who doesn’t seem to be being demonized or downvoted much in this article/thread and ask them if they’re willing to help by posting for you / reviewing / pointing out where people are likely to block while reading and just downvote you.
I have like infinite sockpuppets, that’s not what I meant.
I would like to second Swimmer’s request for a PM, if you’re still interested in replying to this post.
I know what you mean. As someone who knows women who have been raped and abused, I am disgusted and horrified by this post. I almost can’t believe LW is willing to tolerate such insensitivity.
Mu; oppression is a condition or relation, not an experience.