Silly Rules (found in the Alignment Newsletter) are rules that do not have functional value in themselves.
Silly rules help groups adapt to uncertainty about the stability of social order by enriching the information environment. They help participants in these groups track their beliefs about the likelihood that violations of important rules will be punished and thus the likelihood that important rules will be violated. These beliefs are critical to the incentive to invest resources in interaction.
Examples:
wearing a head covering in public
standing for the anthem
using the fork with the left and the knife with the right hand
What formal or informal rules can people use online where things like hats don’t work?
One thing that I have come up with since I read this post is
Emoticons. :-)
Reacting to posts with suitable emoticons shows who pays attention and who smiles toward whom—something that is an important signal offline but hard to replicate online.
What are your suggestions?
I think a lot of work is being done by the phrase “have functional value” in your description. Wearing head covering keeps God happy, standing for the anthem keeps you from being harassed in the press. Is all signaling, or all group-membership-signaling silly? Ok, probably yes. And really, for group distinction, the sillier the better.
But this means that almost all online social behavior is silly. Huh, now that I write it, I see how valid the description is.
Yeah, “functional value” is too simplistic. The original article defines silly rules as
But I see this as distinct from status signaling. Maybe we need a typology of signaling.
Ah, I hadn’t read the link. I still think this is pretty much signaling of conformity/membership and not anything more. I think the author undervalues many people’s desire to belong, though. The idea that people care significantly more about property rights than dress codes can easily be disproven by shoplifting a candy bar, then attempting to purchase one while naked.
You’re comparing a minimal property rights violation with a maximal dress code violation.
That’s what it feels from the inside.
There is competition between genes promoting exploitation (free-loading) and genes preventing being exploited (promoting conformity). Humans are Adaptation Executors so this is not about understanding what is better game-theoretically but feeling (having some instinct, drive, affect) something that leads to the adaptive behavior. Belonging is a feeling related to promoting collaboration and somehow that includes the willingness to follow even silly rules.
Using in-group jargon indicates that you are a loyal member of the group , but is actually counter productive to the group ’s stated aims of brining its message to the world at large.
And this applies to most groups. Country-specific languages are the extreme case of this.
I wasn’t making a general point.