Gender imbalance is obviously more interesting than name length and the difference in curiosity needs no justification.
Which interest is not obvious. Here’s a handful of possible points which could be made by that observation:
Women generate less and worse rationality quotes then men.
LW does not post rationality quotes generated by women as frequently.
LW does not upvote rationality quotes generated by women as frequently.
Someone trying to make the first point, and someone trying to make the third point, have radically different interpretations of the observed data, and the resulting conversation will be very different depending on which point you think they’re trying to make.
What’s the reason we have to browbeat him to constrain the discussion to some specific point? To me it’s obvious several points could be made and the observation could be a sufficient discussion starter.
What’s the reason we have to browbeat him to constrain the discussion to some specific point?
Particularly on political issues, a “I observed X. Discuss.” has the potential to be a trap. Each of the points I made in the grandparent post can be construed as a political attack- the first on women, the second two on the LW community- and simultaneously attacking everyone because of a lack of clarity is, generally speaking, a conversational and political mistake. It’s not obvious which issue to engage with, and engaging with the incorrect issue is dangerous.
It’s not difficult to deduce what kind of a response to the implication question is a socially acceptable one. I might also have no implication. Even if my implication was benign I wouldn’t give you the answer. I don’t want to reward coercion or biasing a conversation before it’s even started. I don’t know why people pretend to expect honest answers to such questioning.
If you expect everyone to be totally biased in the conversation then instead of picking the right soldiers for the battle I would suggest concluding that the topic is simply too political to discuss in a rational manner.
If you browbeat people for making observations on issues that might need fixing you’re limiting your options for doing any fixing.
It’s not difficult to deduce what kind of a response to the implication question is a socially acceptable one.
If you are saying that he can figure out whether lying or telling the truth about his implication is socially acceptable, sure.
The real problem is that he already had an implication, but he’s using the fact that it’s an implication to maintain plausible deniability by not coming out and saying it. Saying it may be socially unacceptable, but that’s because making the implication is also socially unacceptable.
It seems to me you’ve already decided what he was trying to imply. It might not be wise to do that based on such a simple remark.
If he brought it up to point out there should be more women on the list, you’ve likely just lost an ally. You’ve pretty much also lost the opportunity to make that point to anyone who noticed your prejudice.
Psychic and social- it’d be difficult for it to be physical! Implying someone is a cryptosexist when they are a feminist, or implying that they are a feminist when they are a cryptosexist, is likely to be a good way to offend them (or make them think poorly of you), and then there are coalition politics to consider.
I’m not trying to be political here, and I don’t think this is about LW or rationality, at all. If that observation is to have a point, I’d suggest an entirely different one:
quotation is a very male form of communication—women quote less and get quoted less
It isn’t just that scripture, constitutions and classics of literature were mostly written by men. Or that men just write more, in science, in journalism, in genre fiction etc. and almost all quotes are from written, rather than spoken expression… That’s all just the “being quoted” side of it. But the quoter participates, and I think quoters are usually male too. Even The Simpsons get quoted mostly by guys rather than than girls, at least around me...
It’s clear to me how quotation as a male form of communication would mean that women quote less, which you could check by comparing the usernames of quoters to the post-weighted sex distriubtion on LW. It’s not as clear to me how it would mean women get quoted less- that would have to be either because of my first or second explanations. (I’m counting “men quote men more frequently than they quote women, and men dominate LW” as part of my second point.)
Which interest is not obvious. Here’s a handful of possible points which could be made by that observation:
Women generate less and worse rationality quotes then men.
LW does not post rationality quotes generated by women as frequently.
LW does not upvote rationality quotes generated by women as frequently.
Someone trying to make the first point, and someone trying to make the third point, have radically different interpretations of the observed data, and the resulting conversation will be very different depending on which point you think they’re trying to make.
What’s the reason we have to browbeat him to constrain the discussion to some specific point? To me it’s obvious several points could be made and the observation could be a sufficient discussion starter.
Particularly on political issues, a “I observed X. Discuss.” has the potential to be a trap. Each of the points I made in the grandparent post can be construed as a political attack- the first on women, the second two on the LW community- and simultaneously attacking everyone because of a lack of clarity is, generally speaking, a conversational and political mistake. It’s not obvious which issue to engage with, and engaging with the incorrect issue is dangerous.
It’s not difficult to deduce what kind of a response to the implication question is a socially acceptable one. I might also have no implication. Even if my implication was benign I wouldn’t give you the answer. I don’t want to reward coercion or biasing a conversation before it’s even started. I don’t know why people pretend to expect honest answers to such questioning.
If you expect everyone to be totally biased in the conversation then instead of picking the right soldiers for the battle I would suggest concluding that the topic is simply too political to discuss in a rational manner.
If you browbeat people for making observations on issues that might need fixing you’re limiting your options for doing any fixing.
If you are saying that he can figure out whether lying or telling the truth about his implication is socially acceptable, sure.
The real problem is that he already had an implication, but he’s using the fact that it’s an implication to maintain plausible deniability by not coming out and saying it. Saying it may be socially unacceptable, but that’s because making the implication is also socially unacceptable.
It seems to me you’ve already decided what he was trying to imply. It might not be wise to do that based on such a simple remark.
If he brought it up to point out there should be more women on the list, you’ve likely just lost an ally. You’ve pretty much also lost the opportunity to make that point to anyone who noticed your prejudice.
What kind of danger are we talking about?
Psychic and social- it’d be difficult for it to be physical! Implying someone is a cryptosexist when they are a feminist, or implying that they are a feminist when they are a cryptosexist, is likely to be a good way to offend them (or make them think poorly of you), and then there are coalition politics to consider.
I’m not trying to be political here, and I don’t think this is about LW or rationality, at all. If that observation is to have a point, I’d suggest an entirely different one:
quotation is a very male form of communication—women quote less and get quoted less
It isn’t just that scripture, constitutions and classics of literature were mostly written by men. Or that men just write more, in science, in journalism, in genre fiction etc. and almost all quotes are from written, rather than spoken expression… That’s all just the “being quoted” side of it. But the quoter participates, and I think quoters are usually male too. Even The Simpsons get quoted mostly by guys rather than than girls, at least around me...
It’s clear to me how quotation as a male form of communication would mean that women quote less, which you could check by comparing the usernames of quoters to the post-weighted sex distriubtion on LW. It’s not as clear to me how it would mean women get quoted less- that would have to be either because of my first or second explanations. (I’m counting “men quote men more frequently than they quote women, and men dominate LW” as part of my second point.)