I have been thinking about “holding off on proposing solutions.” Can anyone comment on whether this is more about the social friction involved in rejecting someone’s solution without injuring their pride, or more about the difficulty of getting an idea out of your head once it’s there?
If it’s mostly social, then I would expect the method to not be useful when used by a single person; and conversely. My anecdote is that I feel it’s helped me when thinking solo, but this may be wishful thinking.
Definitely the latter, even when I’m on my own, any subsequent ideas after my first one tend to be variations on my first solution, unless I try extra hard to escape its grip.
You might think about the zen idea, in which the proposal of solutions is certainly held off, or treated differently. This is a very common idea in response to the tendency of solutions to precipitate themselves so ubiquitously.
I have been thinking about “holding off on proposing solutions.” Can anyone comment on whether this is more about the social friction involved in rejecting someone’s solution without injuring their pride, or more about the difficulty of getting an idea out of your head once it’s there?
If it’s mostly social, then I would expect the method to not be useful when used by a single person; and conversely. My anecdote is that I feel it’s helped me when thinking solo, but this may be wishful thinking.
Definitely the latter, even when I’m on my own, any subsequent ideas after my first one tend to be variations on my first solution, unless I try extra hard to escape its grip.
You might think about the zen idea, in which the proposal of solutions is certainly held off, or treated differently. This is a very common idea in response to the tendency of solutions to precipitate themselves so ubiquitously.