is Noticing Boredom a recognized mental skill? Because it should be
Very much agreed. When I started taking online courses I was surprised at how speeding up the video helped my learning. What was happening before, and what still happens when I’m watching slow, informationally dilute speeches, is my mind can’t sync up with the presentation and it wanders off on its own way so frequently that I simply can’t stop it from happening. I also didn’t used to realize how hanging around with crowds who wern’t curious and wern’t agenty in the same way I was sucked the life out of me. I thought I was just an inattentive, generally disengaged person. I was dead wrong.
I feel like I am an inattentive, disenganged person, and nonagenty people do suck the life out of me.
What changed in your case which made you see things differently?
Howdy FourFire. At some point after conceiving of a particularly lofty particularly involving plot[details available on request for LWers], I stopped trying to befriend people who wouldn’t feature anywhere in it. Whoever I’m with, there’s always an objective, though I’ll often have to pretend there isn’t and come at it sideways, which only makes it more fun.
For me there are two kinds of people, people I can do something with, and people I’ve got nothing to do with.
Very much agreed. When I started taking online courses I was surprised at how speeding up the video helped my learning. What was happening before, and what still happens when I’m watching slow, informationally dilute speeches, is my mind can’t sync up with the presentation and it wanders off on its own way so frequently that I simply can’t stop it from happening. I also didn’t used to realize how hanging around with crowds who wern’t curious and wern’t agenty in the same way I was sucked the life out of me. I thought I was just an inattentive, generally disengaged person. I was dead wrong.
I feel like I am an inattentive, disenganged person, and nonagenty people do suck the life out of me. What changed in your case which made you see things differently?
Howdy FourFire. At some point after conceiving of a particularly lofty particularly involving plot[details available on request for LWers], I stopped trying to befriend people who wouldn’t feature anywhere in it. Whoever I’m with, there’s always an objective, though I’ll often have to pretend there isn’t and come at it sideways, which only makes it more fun.
For me there are two kinds of people, people I can do something with, and people I’ve got nothing to do with.