I haven’t tried this technique explicitly yet. 😅 So more like ‘best guess at what to try’. But I also have some evidence this will yield interesting results, based on previous pseudo-attempts at something like this process.
My teacher and I totally failed to communicate in my opinion, but this wasn’t made explicit between us. It’s my own story in my head.
Mostly accurate.
A lot of the time, these ‘fractures’ result in major disconnections between people, such that they stop talking to each other for a year or more. Or if they need to work together, it becomes really difficult for them to work together in any functional or healthy way. This fracture can spread to others or cause group-wide fractures.
A rationalist-relevant example might be… say, inability of certain prominent rationalist leaders from being able to coordinate or even have reasonable / good conversations with one another. Sometimes requiring extensive mediation. Or sometimes causing bigger community-wide conflicts. I’m sure you can come up with at least 3 examples.
Sorry for not including this context in the post. I wasn’t trying to make the post very good. :P
OK, but let’s say! YOU are experiencing this kind of fracture with someone and are at least willing to try to bridge. (However, unwilling / unable to drop your frame or try to adopt theirs.) This process is an attempt to find a way to start the conversation without either party needing to drop their frame. So the frames get to ‘meet’.