George Weinberg:
Does it occur to anyone else that the fable is not a warning against doing favors in general but of siding with “outsiders” against “insiders”?Wow; now that you mention it, that is a blatant recurring theme in the story. I now can’t help but think that that is a major part, if not the whole, of the message. Each victim betrays an in-group to perform a kindness for a stranger. It’s pretty easy to see why storytellers would want to remind listeners that their first duty is to the tribe. Whatever pity they might feel for a stranger, they must never let that pity lead them to betray the interests of their tribe.
Can’t believe I missed that :).
michael vassar:
Would you elaborate on this? What is the generally-feminine behavior of which the first sentence describes an instance?My first inclination would be to think that your first sentence describes something stereotypically masculine. It’s an example of wanting things to come in pre-structured formats, which is part of wanting to operate in a domain that is governed by explicit pre-established rules. That is often seen as a stereotypically-masculine desire that manifests in such non-nerdy pursuits as professional sports and military hierarchies.