Some further examples:
Past me might have said: Apple products are “worse” because they are overpriced status symbols
Many claims in politics, say “we should raise the minimum wage because it helps workers”
We shouldn’t use nuclear power because it’s not really “renewable”
When AI lab CEOs warn of AI x risk we can dismiss that because they might just want to build hype
AI cannot be intelligent, or dangerous, because it’s just matrix multiplications
One shouldn’t own a cat because it’s an unnatural way for a cat to live
Pretty much any any-benefit mindset that makes it into an argument rather than purely existing in a person’s behavior
I guess a related pattern is the symmetric case where people talk past each other because both sides are afraid their arguments won’t get heard, so they both focus on repeating their arguments and nobody really listens (or maybe they do, but not in a way that convinces the other person they really got their argument). So there, too, I agree with your advice—taking a step back and repeating the other person’s viewpoint seems like the best way out of this.