Given the context, I was assuming the scenario being discussed was one where the two players’ decisions are independent, and where no one expects they may be playing against themselves.
You’re right that the game changes if a player thinks that their choice influences (or, arguably, predicts) their opponent’s choice.
Agreed. Pretty sure even if the other board members didn’t see the exact nature of the trap, they’d still find it obvious that it is a trap, especially considering the source.