Except for the programming advice, I disagree with all that. Small town people have more reason to look for you. Bigger town people will not peer pressure you into lifting, they’ll peer pressure you into unhappiness. Lifting itself is one of the worst ways of getting women in terms of time expenditure. It looks like you (mr mind) are optimizing for long-terming women, see my other commentaries for linking on that.
Except for the programming advice, I disagree with all that. Small town people have more reason to look for you. Bigger town people will not peer pressure you into lifting, they’ll peer pressure you into unhappiness. Lifting itself is one of the worst ways of getting women in terms of time expenditure. It looks like you (mr mind) are optimizing for long-terming women, see my other commentaries for linking on that.