I’m genuinely curious what you expect the very bad effects might end up being after you read this comment clarifying the nature, background and details of the planned meetup.
I think you’re still underestimating how stressful this sort of thing is for writers.
I totally believe you have good intent here and that the meetup itself will be pretty inoccuous, and were talking about it in your usual kind of “is Evan serious I dunno man let the Dankness flow!?” way, but in this case the joke fell flat and felt mean spirited. Regardless of how the meetup plays out, the opening post is written in a way that’s making a spectacle of Scott without regard to his feelings.
Being moderately internet-famous is actually really stressful, since you’re visible enough to periodically attract internet hate groups but not actually really powerful enough to do much about it. (Scott has already attracted internet hate groups and this post is basically written in their style)
(I have slightly different opinions than Jim and maybe Ben of exactly what felt wrong here. I think holding the meetup was basically fine – local meetup groups can hold random meetups about whatever. But the presentation, and the way you’re gathering questions here, seems like it’s hyping it up to Be An Internet Event that Scott will have to pay a bunch of attention to, while setting a tone that in the OP was a) bad intellectually for the reasons others have described, b) just mean)
[Meta: I think there are some complicated questions around when it’s okay to attack a person that I haven’t gone into in detail about here. This comment is just for Evan because he asked me and I wanted to write down a few things that might seem useful/important to him. I don’t plan to write further comments in this thread.]
*nods*
Here’s my understanding of the points you were making in that comment:
The event will primarily be criticising Scott’s ideas
You will criticise some community norms, and your friend will argue that there are some systematic biases in the writing at SSC
You personally like a lot of Scott’s writing
The tone of the event was intentionally facetious, not literal
The attendees of the event will largely be fans of Scott, and so it’s not accurate to call it an event coordinating people around how bad Scott is. Both speakers will be fighting against the consensus, not for it.
You’re recording it because lots of people asked, not as part of any weird marketing campaign.
Yep, I believe all these points are true, and I feel of the utmost confidence when I say you had zero intention with this event of doing something to hurt or oust another member of this community. I want to mention that I’m personally quite interested to read whatever essay you write about how some of the community norms that Scott has written about might be wrong.
Also, and forgive me for psychologising a bit, but my guess is that when you wrote the title and summary of the event, my very rough model of you was combining the absurd with the rationalist culture, and that was the cause of the style, not any weird or subtle aggression. Y’know, you were being dank.
However, and this is again only a rough guess, I think that when you combined the absurdity with the culture, you forgot that you were writing a post about a person. It wasn’t a post being silly-hostile toward a concept (‘bayes theorem is dumb’) or a brand (‘LessWrong looks stupid’), or a building (‘the CFAR office smells bad’) - this was being silly-hostile toward a person (‘Scott is a pseudo-intellectual’). There was no countersignalling in this post (e.g. “I’m only critiquing Scott because I love him”) or any sign that you were friends with Scott and so that he’d be okay with you writing an openly hostile post about him (e.g. imagine me writing a post about how Oli is a terrible site designer and we’re meeting for me to list all the ways he’s terrible). My problem here isn’t with criticism, but that this kind of post would make anyone feel like the community doesn’t want them in it.
Anyway, I might be wrong about how exactly this post got written, and as I said, I am quite curious to know what your criticism of certain community norms (that Scott and others have written about) are.
I’m genuinely curious what you expect the very bad effects might end up being after you read this comment clarifying the nature, background and details of the planned meetup.
I think you’re still underestimating how stressful this sort of thing is for writers.
I totally believe you have good intent here and that the meetup itself will be pretty inoccuous, and were talking about it in your usual kind of “is Evan serious I dunno man let the Dankness flow!?” way, but in this case the joke fell flat and felt mean spirited. Regardless of how the meetup plays out, the opening post is written in a way that’s making a spectacle of Scott without regard to his feelings.
Being moderately internet-famous is actually really stressful, since you’re visible enough to periodically attract internet hate groups but not actually really powerful enough to do much about it. (Scott has already attracted internet hate groups and this post is basically written in their style)
(I have slightly different opinions than Jim and maybe Ben of exactly what felt wrong here. I think holding the meetup was basically fine – local meetup groups can hold random meetups about whatever. But the presentation, and the way you’re gathering questions here, seems like it’s hyping it up to Be An Internet Event that Scott will have to pay a bunch of attention to, while setting a tone that in the OP was a) bad intellectually for the reasons others have described, b) just mean)
[Meta: I think there are some complicated questions around when it’s okay to attack a person that I haven’t gone into in detail about here. This comment is just for Evan because he asked me and I wanted to write down a few things that might seem useful/important to him. I don’t plan to write further comments in this thread.]
*nods*
Here’s my understanding of the points you were making in that comment:
The event will primarily be criticising Scott’s ideas
You will criticise some community norms, and your friend will argue that there are some systematic biases in the writing at SSC
You personally like a lot of Scott’s writing
The tone of the event was intentionally facetious, not literal
The attendees of the event will largely be fans of Scott, and so it’s not accurate to call it an event coordinating people around how bad Scott is. Both speakers will be fighting against the consensus, not for it.
You’re recording it because lots of people asked, not as part of any weird marketing campaign.
Yep, I believe all these points are true, and I feel of the utmost confidence when I say you had zero intention with this event of doing something to hurt or oust another member of this community. I want to mention that I’m personally quite interested to read whatever essay you write about how some of the community norms that Scott has written about might be wrong.
Also, and forgive me for psychologising a bit, but my guess is that when you wrote the title and summary of the event, my very rough model of you was combining the absurd with the rationalist culture, and that was the cause of the style, not any weird or subtle aggression. Y’know, you were being dank.
However, and this is again only a rough guess, I think that when you combined the absurdity with the culture, you forgot that you were writing a post about a person. It wasn’t a post being silly-hostile toward a concept (‘bayes theorem is dumb’) or a brand (‘LessWrong looks stupid’), or a building (‘the CFAR office smells bad’) - this was being silly-hostile toward a person (‘Scott is a pseudo-intellectual’). There was no countersignalling in this post (e.g. “I’m only critiquing Scott because I love him”) or any sign that you were friends with Scott and so that he’d be okay with you writing an openly hostile post about him (e.g. imagine me writing a post about how Oli is a terrible site designer and we’re meeting for me to list all the ways he’s terrible). My problem here isn’t with criticism, but that this kind of post would make anyone feel like the community doesn’t want them in it.
Anyway, I might be wrong about how exactly this post got written, and as I said, I am quite curious to know what your criticism of certain community norms (that Scott and others have written about) are.