The fact that we believe something unusual is only weak evidence for the validity of that unusual belief, you are right on that. And given the hypothesis that we are wrong, which is dominant while all you have is the observation that we believe something unusual, you can draw a conclusion that we are wrong because of some systematic error of judgment that makes most here to claim the unusual belief.
To move past this point, you have to consider the specific arguments, and decide for yourself whether to accept them.
Most of the beliefs people can hold intuitively are about 50% in certainty. The beliefs far away from this point aren’t useful as primitive concepts, classifying the possible events on one side or the other, as most everything is only on one side, and human mind can’t keep track of their levels of certainty. New concepts get constructed, that are more native to human mind and express the high-certainty concepts in question only in combinations, or that are supported by non-intuitive procedures for processing levels of certainty. But if the argument is dependent on use of intuition, you aren’t always capable of moving towards certainty, so you remain in doubt. This is the case for unknown unknowns, in particular.
The fact that we believe something unusual is only weak evidence for the validity of that unusual belief, you are right on that. And given the hypothesis that we are wrong, which is dominant while all you have is the observation that we believe something unusual, you can draw a conclusion that we are wrong because of some systematic error of judgment that makes most here to claim the unusual belief.
To move past this point, you have to consider the specific arguments, and decide for yourself whether to accept them.
Most of the beliefs people can hold intuitively are about 50% in certainty. The beliefs far away from this point aren’t useful as primitive concepts, classifying the possible events on one side or the other, as most everything is only on one side, and human mind can’t keep track of their levels of certainty. New concepts get constructed, that are more native to human mind and express the high-certainty concepts in question only in combinations, or that are supported by non-intuitive procedures for processing levels of certainty. But if the argument is dependent on use of intuition, you aren’t always capable of moving towards certainty, so you remain in doubt. This is the case for unknown unknowns, in particular.