I was just commenting on the general norm. I haven’t read the OP and didn’t mean to voice an opinion on it.
I’m updating that I don’t understand how discussions work. It happens a lot that I object only to a particular feature of an argument or particular argument, yet my comments are interpreted as endorsing an entire side of a complicated debate.
FWIW, I think the “caving in” discussed/contemplated in Rafael Harth’s comments is something I find intuitively repugnant. It feels like giving up your soul for some very dubious potential benefits. Intellectually I can see some merits for it but I suspect (and very much like to believe) that it’s a bad strategy.
Maybe I would focus more on criticizing this caving in mentality if I didn’t feel like I was preaching to the choir. “Open discussion” norms feel so ingrained on Lesswrong that I’m more worried that other good norms get lost / overlooked.
Maybe I would feel different (more “under attack”) if I was more emotionally invested in the community and felt like something I helped build was under attack with norm erosion. I feel presently more concerned about dangers from evaporative cooling where many who care a not-small degree about “soft virtues in discussions related to tone/tact/welcomingness, but NOT in a strawmanned sense” end up becoming less active or avoiding the comment sections.
Edit: The virtue I mean is maybe best described as “presenting your side in a way that isn’t just persuasive to people who think like you, but even reaches the most receptive percentage of the outgroup that’s predisposed to be suspicious of you.”
I was just commenting on the general norm. I haven’t read the OP and didn’t mean to voice an opinion on it.
I’m updating that I don’t understand how discussions work. It happens a lot that I object only to a particular feature of an argument or particular argument, yet my comments are interpreted as endorsing an entire side of a complicated debate.
FWIW, I think the “caving in” discussed/contemplated in Rafael Harth’s comments is something I find intuitively repugnant. It feels like giving up your soul for some very dubious potential benefits. Intellectually I can see some merits for it but I suspect (and very much like to believe) that it’s a bad strategy.
Maybe I would focus more on criticizing this caving in mentality if I didn’t feel like I was preaching to the choir. “Open discussion” norms feel so ingrained on Lesswrong that I’m more worried that other good norms get lost / overlooked.
Maybe I would feel different (more “under attack”) if I was more emotionally invested in the community and felt like something I helped build was under attack with norm erosion. I feel presently more concerned about dangers from evaporative cooling where many who care a not-small degree about “soft virtues in discussions related to tone/tact/welcomingness, but NOT in a strawmanned sense” end up becoming less active or avoiding the comment sections.
Edit: The virtue I mean is maybe best described as “presenting your side in a way that isn’t just persuasive to people who think like you, but even reaches the most receptive percentage of the outgroup that’s predisposed to be suspicious of you.”