I thought the part you quoted was quite concerning, also in the context of what comes afterwards:
Hiatus: Sam told Greg and Ilya he needs to step away for 10 days to think. Needs to figure out how much he can trust them and how much he wants to work with them. Said he will come back after that and figure out how much time he wants to spend.
Sure, the email by Sutskever and Brockman gave some nonviolent communication vibes and maybe it isn’t “the professional thing” to air one’s feelings and perceived mistakes like that, but they seemed genuine in what they wrote and they raised incredibly important concerns that are difficult in nature to bring up. Also, with hindsight especially, it seems like they had valid reasons to be concerned about Altman’s power-seeking tendencies!
When someone expresses legitimate-given-the-situation concerns about your alignment and your reaction is to basically gaslight them into thinking they did something wrong for finding it hard to trust you, and then you make it seem like you are the poor victim who needs 10 days off of work to figure out whether you can still trust them, that feels messed up! (It’s also a bit hypocritical because the whole “I need 10 days to figure out if I can still trust you for thinking I like being CEO a bit too much,” seems childish too.)
(Of course, these emails are just snapshots and we might be missing things that happened in between via other channels of communication, including in-person talks.)
Also, I find it interesting that they (Sutskever and Brockman) criticized Musk just as much as Altman (if I understood their email correctly), so this should make it easier for Altman to react with grace. I guess given Musk’s own annoyed reaction, maybe Altman was calling the others’ email childish to side with Musks’s dismissive reaction to that same email.
Lastly, this email thread made me wonder what happened between Brockman and Sutskever in the meantime, since it now seems like Brockman no longer holds the same concerns about Altman even though recent events seem to have given a lot of new fire to them.
I agree that it sounds somewhat premature to write off Larry Page based on attitudes he had a long time ago, when AGI seemed more abstract and far away, and then not seek/try communication with him again later on. If that were Musk’s true and only reason for founding OpenAI, then I agree that this was a communication fuckup.
However, my best guess is that this story about Page was interchangeable with a number of alternative plausible criticisms of his competition on building AGI that Musk would likely have come up with in nearby worlds. People like Musk (and Altman too) tend to have a desire to do the most important thing and the belief that they can do this thing a lot better than anyone else. On that assumption, it’s not too surprising that Musk found a reason for having to step in and build AGI himself. In fact, on this view, we should expect to see surprisingly little sincere exploration of “joining someone else’s project to improve it” solutions.
I don’t think this is necessarily a bad attitude. Sometimes people who think this way are right. It just means that we see the following patterns a lot:
Ambitious people start their own thing rather than join some existing thing.
Ambitious people have fallouts with each other after starting a project together where the question of “who eventually gets de facto ultimate control” wasn’t totally specified from the start.
If there isn’t enough common ground, then communication between ambitious people is partly adversarial and just prolongs the inevitable. If there is possibly enough common ground, communication is indeed essential for building healthy coalitions, but this requires prerequisites like shared values, shared empirical assumptions, and being the sort of person whose cognition you can trust to not rationalize their way into screwing you over later on.