To me, a moral belief and a factual belief are approximately equal
Ah. It seems we approach morals from a bit different angles. To you morals is somewhat like physics—it’s a system of “hard” facts and, generally speaking, they are either correct or not. As you say, “On any individual issue, I think I’m right, and therefore logically if someone disagrees with me, I think they’re wrong.”
To me morals is more like preferences—a system of flexible way to evaluate choices. You can have multiple ways to do that and they don’t have to be either correct or not.
Consider a simple example: eating meat. I am a carnivore and think that eating meat is absolutely fine from the morality point of view. Let’s take Alice who is an ideological vegetarian. She feels that eating meat is morally wrong.
My moral position different from (in fact, diametrically opposed to) Alice’s, but I’m not going to say that Alice’s morals are wrong. They are just different and she has full right to have her own.
That does not apply to everything, of course. There are “zones” where I’m fine with opposite morals and there are “zones” where I am not. But even when I would not accept a sufficiently different morality I would hesitate to call it wrong. It seems an inappropriate word to use when there is no external, objective yardstick one could apply. It probably would be better to say that there is a range of values/morals that I consider acceptable and there is a range which I do not.
If I wished I held certain moral beliefs, I already have them.
No, I don’t think so. Morals are values, not desires. It’s not particularly common to wish to hold different values (I think), but I don’t see why this is impossible. For example, consider somebody who values worldly success, winning, being at the top. But he has a side which isn’t too happy with this constant drive, the trampling of everything in the rush to be the first, the sacrifices it requires. That side of his would prefer him to value success less.
In general, people sometimes wish to radically change themselves (religious (de)conversions, acceptance of major ideologies, etc.) and that usually involves changing their morality. That doesn’t happen in a single moment.
My moral position different from (in fact, diametrically opposed to) Alice’s, but I’m not going to say that Alice’s morals are wrong
You do realize she’s implicitly calling you complicit in the perpetuation of the suffering and deaths of millions of animals right? I’m having difficulty understanding how you can NOT say that her morality is wrong. Her ACTIONS are clearly unobjectionable (Eating plants is certainly not worse than eating meat under the vast majority of ethical systems) but her MORALITY is quite controversial. I have a feeling like you accept this case because she is not doing anything that violates your own moral system, while you are doing something that violates hers. To use a (possibly hyperbolic and offensive) analogy, this is similar to a case where a murderer calls the morals of someone who doesn’t accept murder as “just different”, and something they have the full right to have.
No, I don’t think so. (and following text)
I don’t think your example works. He values success, AND he values other things (family, companionship, ect.) I’m not sure why you’re calling different values “Different sides” as though they are separate agents. We all have values that occasionally conflict. I value a long life, even biological immortality if possible (I know, what am I doing on lesswrong with a value like that? /sarcasm), but I wouldn’t sacrifice 1000 lives a day to keep me alive atop a golden throne. This doesn’t seem like a case of my “Don’t murder” side wanting me to value immortality less, it’s more a case of considering the expected utility of my actions and coming to a conclusion about what collateral damage I’m willing to accept. It’s a straight calculation, no value readjustment required.
As for your last point, I’ve never experienced such a radical change (I was raised religiously, but outside of weekly mass my family never seemed to take it very seriously and I can’t remember caring too much about it). I actually don’t know what makes other people adopt ideologies. For me, I’m a utilitarian because it seems like a logical way to formalize my empathy and altruistic desires, and to this day I have difficulty grokking deontology like natural law theology (you would think being raised catholic would teach you some of that. It did not).
So, to summarize my ramblings: I think your first example only LOOKS like reasonable disagreement because Alice’s actions are unobjectionable to you, and you would feel differently if positions were reversed. I think your example of different sides is really just explaining different values, which have to be weighed against each other but need not cause moral distress. And I have no idea what to make of your last point.
If I ignored or misstated any of your points, or am just completely talking over you and not getting the point at all, please let me know.
I’m having difficulty understanding how you can NOT say that her morality is wrong.
I think the terms “acceptable” and “not acceptable” are much better here than right and wrong.
If the positions were reversed, I might find Alice’s morality unacceptable to me, but I still wouldn’t call it wrong.
I’m not sure why you’re calling different values “Different sides” as though they are separate agents.
No, I’m not talking about different values here. Having different conflicting values is entirely normal and commonplace. I am here implicitly accepting the multi-agent theory of mind and saying that a part of Bob’s (let’s call the guy Bob) personality would like to change his values. It might even be a dominant part of Bob’s conscious personality, but it still is having difficulty controlling his drive to win.
Or let’s take a different example, with social pressure. Ali Ababwa emigrated from Backwardistan to the United States. His original morality was that women are… let’s say inferior. However Ali went to school in the US, got educated and somewhat assimilated. He understands—consciously—that his attitude towards women is neither adequate nor appropriate and moreover, his job made it clear to him that he ain’t in Backwardistan any more and noticeable sexism will get him fired. And yet his morals do not change just because he would prefer them to change. Maybe they will, eventually, but it will take time.
That’s already an excellent start :-)
Ah. It seems we approach morals from a bit different angles. To you morals is somewhat like physics—it’s a system of “hard” facts and, generally speaking, they are either correct or not. As you say, “On any individual issue, I think I’m right, and therefore logically if someone disagrees with me, I think they’re wrong.”
To me morals is more like preferences—a system of flexible way to evaluate choices. You can have multiple ways to do that and they don’t have to be either correct or not.
Consider a simple example: eating meat. I am a carnivore and think that eating meat is absolutely fine from the morality point of view. Let’s take Alice who is an ideological vegetarian. She feels that eating meat is morally wrong.
My moral position different from (in fact, diametrically opposed to) Alice’s, but I’m not going to say that Alice’s morals are wrong. They are just different and she has full right to have her own.
That does not apply to everything, of course. There are “zones” where I’m fine with opposite morals and there are “zones” where I am not. But even when I would not accept a sufficiently different morality I would hesitate to call it wrong. It seems an inappropriate word to use when there is no external, objective yardstick one could apply. It probably would be better to say that there is a range of values/morals that I consider acceptable and there is a range which I do not.
No, I don’t think so. Morals are values, not desires. It’s not particularly common to wish to hold different values (I think), but I don’t see why this is impossible. For example, consider somebody who values worldly success, winning, being at the top. But he has a side which isn’t too happy with this constant drive, the trampling of everything in the rush to be the first, the sacrifices it requires. That side of his would prefer him to value success less.
In general, people sometimes wish to radically change themselves (religious (de)conversions, acceptance of major ideologies, etc.) and that usually involves changing their morality. That doesn’t happen in a single moment.
You do realize she’s implicitly calling you complicit in the perpetuation of the suffering and deaths of millions of animals right? I’m having difficulty understanding how you can NOT say that her morality is wrong. Her ACTIONS are clearly unobjectionable (Eating plants is certainly not worse than eating meat under the vast majority of ethical systems) but her MORALITY is quite controversial. I have a feeling like you accept this case because she is not doing anything that violates your own moral system, while you are doing something that violates hers. To use a (possibly hyperbolic and offensive) analogy, this is similar to a case where a murderer calls the morals of someone who doesn’t accept murder as “just different”, and something they have the full right to have.
I don’t think your example works. He values success, AND he values other things (family, companionship, ect.) I’m not sure why you’re calling different values “Different sides” as though they are separate agents. We all have values that occasionally conflict. I value a long life, even biological immortality if possible (I know, what am I doing on lesswrong with a value like that? /sarcasm), but I wouldn’t sacrifice 1000 lives a day to keep me alive atop a golden throne. This doesn’t seem like a case of my “Don’t murder” side wanting me to value immortality less, it’s more a case of considering the expected utility of my actions and coming to a conclusion about what collateral damage I’m willing to accept. It’s a straight calculation, no value readjustment required.
As for your last point, I’ve never experienced such a radical change (I was raised religiously, but outside of weekly mass my family never seemed to take it very seriously and I can’t remember caring too much about it). I actually don’t know what makes other people adopt ideologies. For me, I’m a utilitarian because it seems like a logical way to formalize my empathy and altruistic desires, and to this day I have difficulty grokking deontology like natural law theology (you would think being raised catholic would teach you some of that. It did not).
So, to summarize my ramblings: I think your first example only LOOKS like reasonable disagreement because Alice’s actions are unobjectionable to you, and you would feel differently if positions were reversed. I think your example of different sides is really just explaining different values, which have to be weighed against each other but need not cause moral distress. And I have no idea what to make of your last point.
If I ignored or misstated any of your points, or am just completely talking over you and not getting the point at all, please let me know.
I think the terms “acceptable” and “not acceptable” are much better here than right and wrong.
If the positions were reversed, I might find Alice’s morality unacceptable to me, but I still wouldn’t call it wrong.
No, I’m not talking about different values here. Having different conflicting values is entirely normal and commonplace. I am here implicitly accepting the multi-agent theory of mind and saying that a part of Bob’s (let’s call the guy Bob) personality would like to change his values. It might even be a dominant part of Bob’s conscious personality, but it still is having difficulty controlling his drive to win.
Or let’s take a different example, with social pressure. Ali Ababwa emigrated from Backwardistan to the United States. His original morality was that women are… let’s say inferior. However Ali went to school in the US, got educated and somewhat assimilated. He understands—consciously—that his attitude towards women is neither adequate nor appropriate and moreover, his job made it clear to him that he ain’t in Backwardistan any more and noticeable sexism will get him fired. And yet his morals do not change just because he would prefer them to change. Maybe they will, eventually, but it will take time.
Sure, but do you accept that other people have?