That’s a solid point, and to a significant extent I agree.
There are quite a lot of things that people can spend these kinds of resources on that are very effective at a small scale. This is an entirely sufficient basis to justify the idea of friends, or indeed “allies”, which is a more accurate term in this context. A network of local interconnections of such friends/allies who devote time and effort to one another is quite simply a highly efficient way to improve overall human well-being.
This also leads to a very simple, unbiased moral justification for devoting resources to your close friends; it’s simply that you, more so than other people, are in a unique position to affect the well-being of your friends, and vice versa. That kind of argument is also an entirely sufficient basis for some amount of “selfishness”—ceteris paribus, you yourself are in a better position to improve your own well-being than anyone else is.
However, this is not the same thing as “caring” in the sense So8res is using the term; I think he’s using the term more in the sense of “value”. For the above reasons, you can value your friends equally to anyone else while still devoting more time and effort to them. In general, you’re going to be better able to help your close friends than you are a random stranger on the street.
That’s a solid point, and to a significant extent I agree.
There are quite a lot of things that people can spend these kinds of resources on that are very effective at a small scale. This is an entirely sufficient basis to justify the idea of friends, or indeed “allies”, which is a more accurate term in this context. A network of local interconnections of such friends/allies who devote time and effort to one another is quite simply a highly efficient way to improve overall human well-being.
This also leads to a very simple, unbiased moral justification for devoting resources to your close friends; it’s simply that you, more so than other people, are in a unique position to affect the well-being of your friends, and vice versa. That kind of argument is also an entirely sufficient basis for some amount of “selfishness”—ceteris paribus, you yourself are in a better position to improve your own well-being than anyone else is.
However, this is not the same thing as “caring” in the sense So8res is using the term; I think he’s using the term more in the sense of “value”. For the above reasons, you can value your friends equally to anyone else while still devoting more time and effort to them. In general, you’re going to be better able to help your close friends than you are a random stranger on the street.