The way you put it, it seems like you want to care for both X and Y but are unable to.
However, if that’s the case then So8res’s point carries, because the core argument in the post translates to “if you think you ought to care about both X and Y but find yourself unable to, then you can still try to act the way that you would if you did, in fact, care about both X and Y”.
The way you put it, it seems like you want to care for both X and Y but are unable to.
However, if that’s the case then So8res’s point carries, because the core argument in the post translates to “if you think you ought to care about both X and Y but find yourself unable to, then you can still try to act the way that you would if you did, in fact, care about both X and Y”.
“I want to care for an arbitrarily chosen person from the set of X and Y” is not “I want to care for X and Y”. It’s “I want to care for X or Y”.