The issue is with the decision, so asking “Is it moral?” is a potentially misleading framing because of the connotations of “moral” that aren’t directly concerned with comparing effects of alternative actions. So the choice is between the scenario where a person made promises etc. and later stuck with them while miserable, and the scenario where they did something else.
“Justify” has a similar problem. Justifications may be mistaken, even intentionally so. Calling something a justification emphasizes persuasion over accuracy.
The issue is with the decision, so asking “Is it moral?” is a potentially misleading framing because of the connotations of “moral” that aren’t directly concerned with comparing effects of alternative actions. So the choice is between the scenario where a person made promises etc. and later stuck with them while miserable, and the scenario where they did something else.
I’m asking what would make you justify leaving or staying.
“Justify” has a similar problem. Justifications may be mistaken, even intentionally so. Calling something a justification emphasizes persuasion over accuracy.