Part of my response is “this is very context-dependent”, and that is overwhelmingly true for a group house or book club. Alice can, of course, leave either one if she feels Bob is ruining her experience. She may or may not convince others to kick Bob out if he doesn’t shape up, depending on the style of group and charter for formal ownership of the house.
She’d be far better off, in either case, being specific about what she wants Bob to do differently, rather than just saying “work harder”.
Part of my response is “this is very context-dependent”, and that is overwhelmingly true for a group house or book club. Alice can, of course, leave either one if she feels Bob is ruining her experience. She may or may not convince others to kick Bob out if he doesn’t shape up, depending on the style of group and charter for formal ownership of the house.
She’d be far better off, in either case, being specific about what she wants Bob to do differently, rather than just saying “work harder”.