The joke is more likely to resonate with the audience if it corresponds to their experience.
Nonsense. All it takes is that the audience want to believe it. Experience is not truth; a large part of people’s “experience” is their own beliefs. This is just the same death spiral again. If they laugh, that proves I’m right; if they boo, that proves I’m right.
It’s necessary to get society to the point where it’s possible to make the argument without being declared unfit for polite company.
The argument for what, in the context of the original posting? That in a marriage, the natural and desirable order of things is that man shall be the absolute ruler and woman the slave, and that any other arrangement is a futile struggle against our fundamental biological nature that if pursued will bring only doom and destruction?
Experience is not truth; a large part of people’s “experience” is their own beliefs.
Heck, a large part of people’s “experience” is fiction.
For instance: By the age of fifteen, if there are no doctors and nobody chronically ill in your immediate family, you’ve likely spent more time watching and reading fiction about doctors and medicine than you’ve spent discussing medicine with actual doctors. So your ideas of what doctors do are going to be based more directly on fiction than reality. One consequence of this is that there are a lot of common false beliefs promulgated by medical fiction. (Warning, TVTropes.)
For that matter, I suspect many fifteen-year-olds have heard more lawyer jokes than they have heard sentences spoken by an actual lawyer other than a politician. (Though one can hope they’ve taken more of an impression from Atticus Finch than from kill-all-the-lawyers jokes.)
(And yet, many fifteen-year-olds decide to become doctors … and lawyers … and other professions whose reputation and habits they have learned about chiefly through fiction, jokes, and stories rather than through observation.)
For that matter, the claim that “the joke is more likely to resonate with the audience if it corresponds to their experience” implies that the erstwhile popularity of jokes about Poles being stupid and impractical was good evidence that Poles actually were stupid and impractical.
implies that the erstwhile popularity of jokes about Poles being stupid and impractical was good evidence that Poles actually were stupid and impractical.
The joke is more likely to resonate with the audience if it corresponds to their experience.
If they laugh, that proves I’m right;
Note the difference in meaning between the two italicized phrases?
if they boo, that proves I’m right.
What did I say that could reasonably be interpreted this way?
(Edit: thinking about it, I think I see how you got that impression: Laughter is evidence that you’re right, an extreme negative reaction is weaker evidence that you’re onto something. Indifference, or a non-extreme negative reaction is thus evidence that you’re wrong.)
That in a marriage, the natural and desirable order of things is that man shall be the absolute ruler and woman the slave, and that any other arrangement is a futile struggle against our fundamental biological nature that if pursued will bring only doom and destruction?
Seriously, could you at least try not to straw-man my position?
Maybe it’s just me, but your comments here seem a bit hostile.
Furthermore, the whole contrarian/red pill/pretty lies/uncomfortable truths meme is toxic. It’s a death spiral.
I don’t think you should call an idea a death spiral. It is vulnerable in the way you say, but that doesn’t reflect on the idea, it just means we humans have to be really careful with it.
We do have a whole sequence on how to deal with such ideas. None of the advice is “don’t believe it”.
All opposition demonstrates your superior insight, and all agreement demonstrates your superior insight. Everything demonstrates your superior insight, which together with the normal repertoire of human biases makes it pretty much impossible to encounter any evidence that you’re wrong.
Again, we have plenty of material on LW for conserving expected evidence and watching for biases.
If you are arguing that things you can’t say are toxic outside LW for the untrained masses, I recommend that you spend your time convincing them to study rationality instead of convincing them to believe things for reasons other than truth.
The argument for what, in the context of the original posting? That in a marriage, the natural and desirable order of things is that man shall be the absolute ruler and woman the slave, and that any other arrangement is a futile struggle against our fundamental biological nature that if pursued will bring only doom and destruction?
Come on, this is a straw man. The OP was talking about abusers, not fictional extremists. Eugene had explicitly generalized to other taboo issues anyway.
There are idiots who say such things, but there are also a lot of really interesting ideas (in the sense that they are important and debateable) that don’t get discussed enough because people punish anyone who brings them up. Censorship of whole topics doesn’t really seem like a good way to handle a few vile idiots.
Tone is usually uninteresting, but I think it’s worth noting in the case of these “red pill” ideas; The red-pill types tend to use careful argument (because they have to to be taken seriously) while the maintream responders use weak arguments and social bullying (because they are surrounded by fellow believers). This apparent difference in the power of the arguments can confuse naive open-minded people (like myself a few days ago). Please consider this when responding to dumb ideas.
Maybe it’s just me, but your comments here seem a bit hostile.
I’m expressing disagreement with a common meme around here. Of course that will seem a bit hostile. But I shall not engage in any red-pill framing of that uninteresting fact.
If you are arguing that things you can’t say are toxic outside LW for the untrained masses
I’m not talking about the things you can’t say, but about the idea of things you can’t say. That idea is a shield against reality, a mirror that makes everything behind it seem real, when it is just a distorted reflection of oneself.
Come on, this is a straw man. The OP was talking about abusers, not fictional extremists.
Ok, I would not seriously attribute the view I described to anyone on LW. But there are people who explicitly believe in exactly that view, exactly as extremely as I portrayed it, and surround it with red-pill rhetoric. There is at least one on LW (who has not posted in this thread) who holds at least to a lesser form of men’s rightful power over women, and who I confidently expect would express approval of the joke in the original article. This is not fiction; I did not make any of it up.
Tone is usually uninteresting, but I think it’s worth noting in the case of these “red pill” ideas; The red-pill types tend to use careful argument (because they have to to be taken seriously) while the maintream responders use weak arguments and social bullying (because they are surrounded by fellow believers).
That is not my observation. The article linked here is a good example of red-pill performance ranting. The whole thing could just as easily be expressed as platitudes of Deep Wisdom: “ask not what other people can do for you, but what you can do for them”, “to give is to receive”, etc., and in other places it would be. There’s not much argument there, careful or otherwise. Of course not—it’s cracked.com, that’s the sort of thing that people go there for. I previously linked another example of the genre here.
Working through the Google hits for “red pill” turns up few specimens of conspicuous rationality, and to talk about “mainstream responders” is already to have yielded to the tainted insight of the red pill pusher.
That idea is a shield against reality, a mirror that makes everything behind it seem real, when it is just a distorted reflection of oneself.
This is a good point. Thanks for pointing it out to me. I’ve been having a crisis of faith on quite a few of those “red pill” ideas recently and I’m sure this will be useful next time I think about any of it.
That said, it seems to me that the standard cult attractor advice and conservation of expected evidence is sufficient to diffuse this effect. Do you think so, too? Or do you think we are not good enough at it such that we have to add extra caution? Or something else?
Basically what do you recommend for a well-sequenced LWer to do to entangle their beliefs with reality on these sorts of issues?
That is not my observation.
Huh. I wonder why. I don’t really hang out anywhere like PUA forums or racist blogs or anything like that, so maybe I only encounter the good stuff that has enough sensibleness to it to filter into the rest of the internet? I guess then we would see the opposite on PUA forums; mostly average idiots who can’t handle the is-ought distinction, and a few intelligent mainstreamers coming in and poking holes in people’s tripe (I also might expect a few more troll raids from mainstreamers than there are troll raids from PUA to mainstreamer areas, though this could easily be confounded by other factors)
The article linked here is a good example of red-pill performance ranting.
That article is fucking gold. Thanks for the link. Now unfortunately that was not the point you were trying to make...
I did notice (since you sent me there looking for it) that it was callous and condescending and such (even for cracked). I also noticed that I don’t usually notice that kind of stuff outside LW and other “intellectual areas”. If you hadn’t pointed it out, I would have just filtered the crusty crap and kept the good advice at it’s core. I guess it’s a habit I picked up from 4chan.
The whole thing could just as easily be expressed as platitudes of Deep Wisdom: “ask not what other people can do for you, but what you can do for them”, “to give is to receive”, etc., and in other places it would be.
I’ve got a better one. I summed up the whole thing with “Just Do It!”. However, I don’t think it’s a good idea to dismiss an article because you can say the same thing without 99% of the article. Here’s why:
I run into pieces of genuine good advice all the time, on LW and elsewhere, and I’ve noticed that I can’t really learn or take advice from just a summary of it. Summaries of ideas works really well to precipitate concepts that you already have all the support for, and to convey dry facts, but not for advice and experience. See moral truth in fiction for an analogous argument. As an example, When I read truly a part of you, I was like “yeah that’s cool”, it wasn’t until later that I figured the idea out for myself and realized “holy crap someone already told me this.”
So with that said, even if you can boil down the essential idea of an article to a single sentence, it may still have substantial value as something that creates the experience required for you to actually get the idea. I think that cracked article works like this. It’s a simple idea (not even 6 simple ideas), but all the added inflammatory crust create an experience the actually communicates the idea, instead of just saying it.
I can believe that that article is not written in a way that works for everyone, but I think that for some people (the target audience, for example), it’s exactly what they need to hear, and anything nicer wouldn’t get the point across.
I will throw in that the “come on aren’t you man enough to hear the truth?” thing is toxic as a rhetorical device, as it can make otherwise worthless stuff more compelling. (because if you don’t even read this then you are weak).
I don’t really hang out anywhere like PUA forums or racist blogs or anything like that, so maybe I only encounter the good stuff that has enough sensibleness to it to filter into the rest of the internet?
Like cracked.com and 4chan? Sensibleness is not the filter for popularity on the internet.
That article is fucking gold. Thanks for the link. Now unfortunately that was not the point you were trying to make...
Different people respond to different forms. Some are suckers for a man in a white coat intoning “studies have shown”. Some will lap up Deep Wisdom from anyone in Tibetan robes. Some will believe anyone who shouts at them loudly enough. (Makes for some interesting dynamics on PUA and NLP forums, where assertion is alpha, but both agreement and disagreement are beta.)
However, I don’t think it’s a good idea to dismiss an article because you can say the same thing without 99% of the article.
It’s more that you can write the same content with a completely different 99%, with many completely different 99%s. Ayn Rand, Thich Nhat Hanh, and Feynman could have written the same content, in different ways. How does one determine whether one is responding to the clothing of the message, rather than the content? The red pill idea is particularly attractive to anyone who thinks they’re smarter than those around them. And look where we are, LessWrong, where “contrarian” is a compliment, as if reversed consensus were intelligence.
I can believe that that article is not written in a way that works for everyone, but I think that for some people (the target audience, for example), it’s exactly what they need to hear, and anything nicer wouldn’t get the point across.
Skilful means, as the Buddhists put it. But of those who think they learned something from that article, how many would have learned whatever message the writer might have expressed in the same style?
And look where we are, LessWrong, where “contrarian” is a compliment, as if reversed consensus were intelligence.
Can you link to an example of someone using it as a compliment? I don’t think this is actually the case. It’s simply much less of an insult here than it is in most “skeptic” communities.
In the first link you quoted me describing Moldbug, I should clarify it was used as a put down. I’ve said quite explicitly in other posts that I strongly agree with Hanson on contrarianism.
In the second link the person continues:
The result is that I’m biased towards contrarian theses, which I think is useful for improving group rationality in most cases, but still isn’t rational.
The third is a good example but it is in an article talking about how weird LessWrong is for its love of contrarianism.
I did mean “and most of all contrarian” quite seriously, I just didn’t expect readers to take that as good. It was meant as a warning since I think Moldbug would be a better thinker if he was less contrarian but I’ll update on you reading of it when using the term in the future.
This apparent misunderstanding on second thought isn’t surprising since this community is self-selected for the kind of people who like enjoy contrarian arguments. Weird out there (not saying incorrect) beliefs such as buying cryonics being a good idea otherwise wouldn’t be popular here.
In addition to this if you visit a site where examples of human cognitive failure are investigate every day and individual debasing techniques discussed, but little ephasis is given on how to build communities that have good epistemology or avoid the biases one seems likely to find the story of “lone genius exposes establishment consensus as nonsense” more plausible than otherwise.
Ok, I would not seriously attribute the view I described to anyone on LW. But there are people who explicitly believe in exactly that view, exactly as extremely as I portrayed it, and surround it with red-pill rhetoric. There is at least one on LW (who has not posted in this thread) who holds at least to a lesser form of men’s rightful power over women, and who I confidently expect would express approval of the joke in the original article. This is not fiction; I did not make any of it up.
For what it’s worth, I agree that this poster is at least as characteristic of the meme cluster we’re talking about as its more polite/locally celebrated/refined advocates. What’s worse, I suspect that it’s the locally celebrated “red-pill” contrarians who are shrinking from the conclusions of many of their (anti-egalitarian, etc) memes and that this poster just logically extrapolates the “red-pill” premises to produce his alarming view of gender, “deviancy”, etc.
Another far more famous example is Theodore Beale/Vox Day… and a few other bloggers whom I’d rather not link to.
Maybe it’s just me, but your comments here seem a bit hostile.
I’m expressing disagreement with a common meme around here. Of course that will seem a bit hostile. But I shall not engage in any red-pill framing of that uninteresting fact.
If you are arguing that things you can’t say are toxic outside LW for the untrained masses
I’m not talking about the things you can’t say, but about the idea of things you can’t say. That idea is a shield against reality, a mirror that makes everything behind it seem real, when it is just a distorted reflection of oneself.
Come on, this is a straw man. The OP was talking about abusers, not fictional extremists.
Ok, I would not seriously attribute the view I described to anyone on LW. But there are people who explicitly believe in exactly that view, exactly as extremely as I portrayed it, and surround it with red-pill rhetoric. There is at least one on LW (who has not posted in this thread) who holds at least to a lesser form of men’s rightful power over women, and who I confidently expect would express approval of the joke in the original article. This is not fiction; I did not make any of it up.
Tone is usually uninteresting, but I think it’s worth noting in the case of these “red pill” ideas; The red-pill types tend to use careful argument (because they have to to be taken seriously) while the maintream responders use weak arguments and social bullying (because they are surrounded by fellow believers).
That is not my observation. The article linked here is a good example of red-pill performance ranting. The whole thing could just as easily be expressed as platitudes of Deep Wisdom: “ask not what other people can do for you, but what you can do for them”, “to give is to receive”, etc., and in other places it would be. There’s not much argument there, careful or otherwise. Of course not—it’s cracked.com, that’s the sort of thing that people go there for. I previously linked another example of the genre here.
Working through the Google hits for “red pill” turns up few specimens of conspicuous rationality, and to talk about “mainstream responders” is already to have yielded to the tainted insight of the red pill pusher.
Maybe it’s just me, but your comments here seem a bit hostile.
I’m expressing disagreement with a common meme around here. Of course that will seem a bit hostile. But I shall not engage in any red-pill framing of that uninteresting fact.
If you are arguing that things you can’t say are toxic outside LW for the untrained masses
I’m not talking about the things you can’t say, but about the idea of things you can’t say. That idea is a shield against reality, a mirror that makes everything behind it seem real, when it is just a distorted reflection of oneself.
Come on, this is a straw man. The OP was talking about abusers, not fictional extremists.
Ok, I would not seriously attribute the view I described to anyone on LW. But there are people who explicitly believe in exactly that view, exactly as extremely as I portrayed it, and surround it with red-pill rhetoric. There is at least one on LW (who has not posted in this thread) who holds at least to a lesser form of men’s rightful power over women, and who I confidently expect would express approval of the joke in the original article. This is not fiction; I did not make any of it up.
Tone is usually uninteresting, but I think it’s worth noting in the case of these “red pill” ideas; The red-pill types tend to use careful argument (because they have to to be taken seriously) while the maintream responders use weak arguments and social bullying (because they are surrounded by fellow believers).
That is not my observation. The article linked here is a good example of red-pill performance ranting. The whole thing could just as easily be expressed as platitudes of Deep Wisdom: “ask not what other people can do for you, but what you can do for them”, “to give is to receive”, etc., and in other places it would be. There’s not much argument there, careful or otherwise. Of course not—it’s cracked.com, that’s the sort of thing that people go there for. I previously linked another example of the genre here.
Working through the Google hits for “red pill” turns up few specimens of conspicuous rationality, and to talk about “mainstream responders” is already to have yielded to the tainted insight of the red pill pusher.
Maybe it’s just me, but your comments here seem a bit hostile.
I’m expressing disagreement with a common meme around here. Of course that will seem a bit hostile. But I shall not engage in any red-pill framing of that uninteresting fact.
If you are arguing that things you can’t say are toxic outside LW for the untrained masses
I’m not talking about the things you can’t say, but about the idea of things you can’t say. That idea is a shield against reality, a mirror that makes everything behind it seem real, when it is just a distorted reflection of oneself.
Come on, this is a straw man. The OP was talking about abusers, not fictional extremists.
Ok, I would not seriously attribute the view I described to anyone on LW. But there are people who explicitly believe in exactly that view, exactly as extremely as I portrayed it, and surround it with red-pill rhetoric. There is at least one on LW (who has not posted in this thread) who holds at least to a lesser form of men’s rightful power over women, and who I confidently expect would express approval of the joke in the original article. This is not fiction; I did not make any of it up.
Tone is usually uninteresting, but I think it’s worth noting in the case of these “red pill” ideas; The red-pill types tend to use careful argument (because they have to to be taken seriously) while the maintream responders use weak arguments and social bullying (because they are surrounded by fellow believers).
That is not my observation. The article linked here is a good example of red-pill performance ranting. The whole thing could just as easily be expressed as platitudes of Deep Wisdom: “ask not what other people can do for you, but what you can do for them”, “to give is to receive”, etc., and in other places it would be. There’s not much argument there, careful or otherwise. Of course not—it’s cracked.com, that’s the sort of thing that people go there for. I previously linked another example of the genre here.
Working through the Google hits for “red pill” turns up few specimens of conspicuous rationality, and to talk about “mainstream responders” is already to have yielded to the tainted insight of the red pill merchant.
Maybe it’s just me, but your comments here seem a bit hostile.
I’m expressing disagreement with a common meme around here. Of course that will seem a bit hostile. But I shall not engage in any red-pill framing of that uninteresting fact.
If you are arguing that things you can’t say are toxic outside LW for the untrained masses
I’m not talking about the things you can’t say, but about the idea of things you can’t say. That idea is a shield against reality, a mirror that makes everything behind it seem real, when it is just a distorted reflection of oneself.
Come on, this is a straw man. The OP was talking about abusers, not fictional extremists.
Ok, I would not seriously attribute the view I described to anyone on LW. But there are people who explicitly believe in exactly that view, exactly as extremely as I portrayed it, and surround it with red-pill rhetoric. There is at least one on LW (who has not posted in this thread) who holds at least to a lesser form of men’s rightful power over women, and who I confidently expect would express approval of the joke in the original article. This is not fiction; I did not make any of it up.
Tone is usually uninteresting, but I think it’s worth noting in the case of these “red pill” ideas; The red-pill types tend to use careful argument (because they have to to be taken seriously) while the maintream responders use weak arguments and social bullying (because they are surrounded by fellow believers).
That is not my observation. The article linked here is a good example of red-pill performance ranting. The whole thing could just as easily be expressed as platitudes of Deep Wisdom: “ask not what other people can do for you, but what you can do for them”, “to give is to receive”, etc., and in other places it would be. There’s not much argument there, careful or otherwise. Of course not—it’s cracked.com, that’s the sort of thing that people go there for. I previously linked another example of the genre here.
Working through the Google hits for “red pill” turns up few specimens of conspicuous rationality, and to talk about “mainstream responders” is already to have yielded to the tainted insight of the red pill merchant.
Maybe it’s just me, but your comments here seem a bit hostile.
I’m expressing disagreement with a common meme around here. Of course that will seem a bit hostile. But I shall not engage in any red-pill framing of that uninteresting fact.
If you are arguing that things you can’t say are toxic outside LW for the untrained masses
I’m not talking about the things you can’t say, but about the idea of things you can’t say. That idea is a shield against reality, a mirror that makes everything behind it seem real, when it is just a distorted reflection of oneself.
Come on, this is a straw man. The OP was talking about abusers, not fictional extremists.
Ok, I would not seriously attribute the view I described to anyone on LW. But there are people who explicitly believe in exactly that view, exactly as extremely as I portrayed it, and surround it with red-pill rhetoric. There is at least one on LW (who has not posted in this thread) who holds at least to a lesser form of men’s rightful power over women, and who I confidently expect would express approval of the joke in the original article. This is not fiction; I did not make any of it up.
Tone is usually uninteresting, but I think it’s worth noting in the case of these “red pill” ideas; The red-pill types tend to use careful argument (because they have to to be taken seriously) while the maintream responders use weak arguments and social bullying (because they are surrounded by fellow believers).
That is not my observation. The article linked here is a good example of red-pill performance ranting. The whole thing could just as easily be expressed as platitudes of Deep Wisdom: “ask not what other people can do for you, but what you can do for them”, “to give is to receive”, etc., and in other places it would be. There’s not much argument there, careful or otherwise. Of course not—it’s cracked.com, that’s the sort of thing that people go there for. I previously linked another example of the genre here.
Working through the Google hits for “red pill” turns up few specimens of conspicuous rationality, and to talk about “mainstream responders” is already to have yielded to the tainted insight of the red pill merchant.
This apparent difference in the power of the arguments can confuse naive open-minded people (like myself a few days ago).
Whoa, damn, you mean to say you recanted? That’s cool, I guess. Now join me in my meta-meta-meta-contrarian ivory tower; you’re smarter and more diligent than me. Although less interested in politics, I guess.
I’ve sort of gone back on one specific piece of evidence, which was that contrarians on some issues tend to have much stronger arguments, and therefor are probably right.
Yvain explained that quite well by noting that believers of popular belief have no incentive to seriously engage contrarians, lest they “legitimize” them or appear like they were taking them seriously. It is much more individually beneficial to point and laugh.
An extension of that, though is that you can get signalling absurdity arms-races that cause the mainstream position to become as absurd as possible. (see for example, Australia banning small-breast porn and most of the world banning drawn loli porn because “can’t let those damn pedos get off”).
Yvain ignored the implications for mainstream belief quality (at least as far as I could tell). But it seems pretty damning to me.
That’s what the quoted comment was referring to.
I’m unsure where I stand relative to you, Konkvistador, Moldbug, etc in all this. I’m still mostly Universalist in morality (universal brotherhood fuck yeah, let’s tear apart and rebuild the universe if it disagrees, etc), but pretty much reject all of its factual claims about literal equality, effectiveness of collective governance, etc. If you like, we could talk in more detail about this. (I would like that; I’m interested in your view, but haven’t had a chance to figure it out).
Don’t know why you think I’m smarter or more diligent, but you’re right that I think politics is a waste of time (except to root out political crud that you didn’t know you had, which is what I’ve been doing recently).
Now join me in my meta-meta-meta-contrarian ivory tower
That in a marriage, the natural and desirable order of things is that man shall be the absolute ruler and woman the slave, and that any other arrangement is a futile struggle against our fundamental biological nature that if pursued will bring only doom and destruction?
Nonsense. All it takes is that the audience want to believe it. Experience is not truth; a large part of people’s “experience” is their own beliefs. This is just the same death spiral again. If they laugh, that proves I’m right; if they boo, that proves I’m right.
The argument for what, in the context of the original posting? That in a marriage, the natural and desirable order of things is that man shall be the absolute ruler and woman the slave, and that any other arrangement is a futile struggle against our fundamental biological nature that if pursued will bring only doom and destruction?
Heck, a large part of people’s “experience” is fiction.
For instance: By the age of fifteen, if there are no doctors and nobody chronically ill in your immediate family, you’ve likely spent more time watching and reading fiction about doctors and medicine than you’ve spent discussing medicine with actual doctors. So your ideas of what doctors do are going to be based more directly on fiction than reality. One consequence of this is that there are a lot of common false beliefs promulgated by medical fiction. (Warning, TVTropes.)
For that matter, I suspect many fifteen-year-olds have heard more lawyer jokes than they have heard sentences spoken by an actual lawyer other than a politician. (Though one can hope they’ve taken more of an impression from Atticus Finch than from kill-all-the-lawyers jokes.)
(And yet, many fifteen-year-olds decide to become doctors … and lawyers … and other professions whose reputation and habits they have learned about chiefly through fiction, jokes, and stories rather than through observation.)
For that matter, the claim that “the joke is more likely to resonate with the audience if it corresponds to their experience” implies that the erstwhile popularity of jokes about Poles being stupid and impractical was good evidence that Poles actually were stupid and impractical.
Ceteris paribus yes.
This seems like heresy to me from a Bayesian perspective.
Note the difference in meaning between the two italicized phrases?
What did I say that could reasonably be interpreted this way?
(Edit: thinking about it, I think I see how you got that impression: Laughter is evidence that you’re right, an extreme negative reaction is weaker evidence that you’re onto something. Indifference, or a non-extreme negative reaction is thus evidence that you’re wrong.)
Seriously, could you at least try not to straw-man my position?
Consider “proves” replaced by “is evidence in favour of”. It doesn’t change my point.
That’s the other half of the pattern—which you obligingly go on to complete:
Did you read the sentence I wrote after that one?
Yes. The whole argument’s a crock.
Consider “proves” replaced by “is evidence in favour of”. It doesn’t change my point.
That’s the other half of the pattern—which you obligingly go on to complete:
Consider “proves” replaced by “is evidence in favour of”. It doesn’t change my point.
That’s the other half of the pattern—which you obligingly go on to complete:
Maybe it’s just me, but your comments here seem a bit hostile.
I don’t think you should call an idea a death spiral. It is vulnerable in the way you say, but that doesn’t reflect on the idea, it just means we humans have to be really careful with it.
We do have a whole sequence on how to deal with such ideas. None of the advice is “don’t believe it”.
Again, we have plenty of material on LW for conserving expected evidence and watching for biases.
If you are arguing that things you can’t say are toxic outside LW for the untrained masses, I recommend that you spend your time convincing them to study rationality instead of convincing them to believe things for reasons other than truth.
Come on, this is a straw man. The OP was talking about abusers, not fictional extremists. Eugene had explicitly generalized to other taboo issues anyway.
There are idiots who say such things, but there are also a lot of really interesting ideas (in the sense that they are important and debateable) that don’t get discussed enough because people punish anyone who brings them up. Censorship of whole topics doesn’t really seem like a good way to handle a few vile idiots.
Tone is usually uninteresting, but I think it’s worth noting in the case of these “red pill” ideas; The red-pill types tend to use careful argument (because they have to to be taken seriously) while the maintream responders use weak arguments and social bullying (because they are surrounded by fellow believers). This apparent difference in the power of the arguments can confuse naive open-minded people (like myself a few days ago). Please consider this when responding to dumb ideas.
I’m expressing disagreement with a common meme around here. Of course that will seem a bit hostile. But I shall not engage in any red-pill framing of that uninteresting fact.
I’m not talking about the things you can’t say, but about the idea of things you can’t say. That idea is a shield against reality, a mirror that makes everything behind it seem real, when it is just a distorted reflection of oneself.
Ok, I would not seriously attribute the view I described to anyone on LW. But there are people who explicitly believe in exactly that view, exactly as extremely as I portrayed it, and surround it with red-pill rhetoric. There is at least one on LW (who has not posted in this thread) who holds at least to a lesser form of men’s rightful power over women, and who I confidently expect would express approval of the joke in the original article. This is not fiction; I did not make any of it up.
That is not my observation. The article linked here is a good example of red-pill performance ranting. The whole thing could just as easily be expressed as platitudes of Deep Wisdom: “ask not what other people can do for you, but what you can do for them”, “to give is to receive”, etc., and in other places it would be. There’s not much argument there, careful or otherwise. Of course not—it’s cracked.com, that’s the sort of thing that people go there for. I previously linked another example of the genre here.
Working through the Google hits for “red pill” turns up few specimens of conspicuous rationality, and to talk about “mainstream responders” is already to have yielded to the tainted insight of the red pill pusher.
This is a good point. Thanks for pointing it out to me. I’ve been having a crisis of faith on quite a few of those “red pill” ideas recently and I’m sure this will be useful next time I think about any of it.
That said, it seems to me that the standard cult attractor advice and conservation of expected evidence is sufficient to diffuse this effect. Do you think so, too? Or do you think we are not good enough at it such that we have to add extra caution? Or something else?
Basically what do you recommend for a well-sequenced LWer to do to entangle their beliefs with reality on these sorts of issues?
Huh. I wonder why. I don’t really hang out anywhere like PUA forums or racist blogs or anything like that, so maybe I only encounter the good stuff that has enough sensibleness to it to filter into the rest of the internet? I guess then we would see the opposite on PUA forums; mostly average idiots who can’t handle the is-ought distinction, and a few intelligent mainstreamers coming in and poking holes in people’s tripe (I also might expect a few more troll raids from mainstreamers than there are troll raids from PUA to mainstreamer areas, though this could easily be confounded by other factors)
That article is fucking gold. Thanks for the link. Now unfortunately that was not the point you were trying to make...
I did notice (since you sent me there looking for it) that it was callous and condescending and such (even for cracked). I also noticed that I don’t usually notice that kind of stuff outside LW and other “intellectual areas”. If you hadn’t pointed it out, I would have just filtered the crusty crap and kept the good advice at it’s core. I guess it’s a habit I picked up from 4chan.
I’ve got a better one. I summed up the whole thing with “Just Do It!”. However, I don’t think it’s a good idea to dismiss an article because you can say the same thing without 99% of the article. Here’s why:
I run into pieces of genuine good advice all the time, on LW and elsewhere, and I’ve noticed that I can’t really learn or take advice from just a summary of it. Summaries of ideas works really well to precipitate concepts that you already have all the support for, and to convey dry facts, but not for advice and experience. See moral truth in fiction for an analogous argument. As an example, When I read truly a part of you, I was like “yeah that’s cool”, it wasn’t until later that I figured the idea out for myself and realized “holy crap someone already told me this.”
So with that said, even if you can boil down the essential idea of an article to a single sentence, it may still have substantial value as something that creates the experience required for you to actually get the idea. I think that cracked article works like this. It’s a simple idea (not even 6 simple ideas), but all the added inflammatory crust create an experience the actually communicates the idea, instead of just saying it.
I can believe that that article is not written in a way that works for everyone, but I think that for some people (the target audience, for example), it’s exactly what they need to hear, and anything nicer wouldn’t get the point across.
I will throw in that the “come on aren’t you man enough to hear the truth?” thing is toxic as a rhetorical device, as it can make otherwise worthless stuff more compelling. (because if you don’t even read this then you are weak).
Like cracked.com and 4chan? Sensibleness is not the filter for popularity on the internet.
Different people respond to different forms. Some are suckers for a man in a white coat intoning “studies have shown”. Some will lap up Deep Wisdom from anyone in Tibetan robes. Some will believe anyone who shouts at them loudly enough. (Makes for some interesting dynamics on PUA and NLP forums, where assertion is alpha, but both agreement and disagreement are beta.)
It’s more that you can write the same content with a completely different 99%, with many completely different 99%s. Ayn Rand, Thich Nhat Hanh, and Feynman could have written the same content, in different ways. How does one determine whether one is responding to the clothing of the message, rather than the content? The red pill idea is particularly attractive to anyone who thinks they’re smarter than those around them. And look where we are, LessWrong, where “contrarian” is a compliment, as if reversed consensus were intelligence.
Skilful means, as the Buddhists put it. But of those who think they learned something from that article, how many would have learned whatever message the writer might have expressed in the same style?
Can you link to an example of someone using it as a compliment? I don’t think this is actually the case. It’s simply much less of an insult here than it is in most “skeptic” communities.
Yes:
Yes (a self-description rather than a compliment to someone else, but clearly intended to be read as a worthy attribute):
Here is someone excusing themselves for not being contrarian:
In the first link you quoted me describing Moldbug, I should clarify it was used as a put down. I’ve said quite explicitly in other posts that I strongly agree with Hanson on contrarianism.
In the second link the person continues:
The third is a good example but it is in an article talking about how weird LessWrong is for its love of contrarianism.
I’ll take your word for your intentions, but the article itself gives me no impression that it was intended anything other than seriously.
I did mean “and most of all contrarian” quite seriously, I just didn’t expect readers to take that as good. It was meant as a warning since I think Moldbug would be a better thinker if he was less contrarian but I’ll update on you reading of it when using the term in the future.
This apparent misunderstanding on second thought isn’t surprising since this community is self-selected for the kind of people who like enjoy contrarian arguments. Weird out there (not saying incorrect) beliefs such as buying cryonics being a good idea otherwise wouldn’t be popular here.
In addition to this if you visit a site where examples of human cognitive failure are investigate every day and individual debasing techniques discussed, but little ephasis is given on how to build communities that have good epistemology or avoid the biases one seems likely to find the story of “lone genius exposes establishment consensus as nonsense” more plausible than otherwise.
For what it’s worth, I agree that this poster is at least as characteristic of the meme cluster we’re talking about as its more polite/locally celebrated/refined advocates. What’s worse, I suspect that it’s the locally celebrated “red-pill” contrarians who are shrinking from the conclusions of many of their (anti-egalitarian, etc) memes and that this poster just logically extrapolates the “red-pill” premises to produce his alarming view of gender, “deviancy”, etc.
Another far more famous example is Theodore Beale/Vox Day… and a few other bloggers whom I’d rather not link to.
I’m expressing disagreement with a common meme around here. Of course that will seem a bit hostile. But I shall not engage in any red-pill framing of that uninteresting fact.
I’m not talking about the things you can’t say, but about the idea of things you can’t say. That idea is a shield against reality, a mirror that makes everything behind it seem real, when it is just a distorted reflection of oneself.
Ok, I would not seriously attribute the view I described to anyone on LW. But there are people who explicitly believe in exactly that view, exactly as extremely as I portrayed it, and surround it with red-pill rhetoric. There is at least one on LW (who has not posted in this thread) who holds at least to a lesser form of men’s rightful power over women, and who I confidently expect would express approval of the joke in the original article. This is not fiction; I did not make any of it up.
That is not my observation. The article linked here is a good example of red-pill performance ranting. The whole thing could just as easily be expressed as platitudes of Deep Wisdom: “ask not what other people can do for you, but what you can do for them”, “to give is to receive”, etc., and in other places it would be. There’s not much argument there, careful or otherwise. Of course not—it’s cracked.com, that’s the sort of thing that people go there for. I previously linked another example of the genre here.
Working through the Google hits for “red pill” turns up few specimens of conspicuous rationality, and to talk about “mainstream responders” is already to have yielded to the tainted insight of the red pill pusher.
I’m expressing disagreement with a common meme around here. Of course that will seem a bit hostile. But I shall not engage in any red-pill framing of that uninteresting fact.
I’m not talking about the things you can’t say, but about the idea of things you can’t say. That idea is a shield against reality, a mirror that makes everything behind it seem real, when it is just a distorted reflection of oneself.
Ok, I would not seriously attribute the view I described to anyone on LW. But there are people who explicitly believe in exactly that view, exactly as extremely as I portrayed it, and surround it with red-pill rhetoric. There is at least one on LW (who has not posted in this thread) who holds at least to a lesser form of men’s rightful power over women, and who I confidently expect would express approval of the joke in the original article. This is not fiction; I did not make any of it up.
That is not my observation. The article linked here is a good example of red-pill performance ranting. The whole thing could just as easily be expressed as platitudes of Deep Wisdom: “ask not what other people can do for you, but what you can do for them”, “to give is to receive”, etc., and in other places it would be. There’s not much argument there, careful or otherwise. Of course not—it’s cracked.com, that’s the sort of thing that people go there for. I previously linked another example of the genre here.
Working through the Google hits for “red pill” turns up few specimens of conspicuous rationality, and to talk about “mainstream responders” is already to have yielded to the tainted insight of the red pill pusher.
I’m expressing disagreement with a common meme around here. Of course that will seem a bit hostile. But I shall not engage in any red-pill framing of that uninteresting fact.
I’m not talking about the things you can’t say, but about the idea of things you can’t say. That idea is a shield against reality, a mirror that makes everything behind it seem real, when it is just a distorted reflection of oneself.
Ok, I would not seriously attribute the view I described to anyone on LW. But there are people who explicitly believe in exactly that view, exactly as extremely as I portrayed it, and surround it with red-pill rhetoric. There is at least one on LW (who has not posted in this thread) who holds at least to a lesser form of men’s rightful power over women, and who I confidently expect would express approval of the joke in the original article. This is not fiction; I did not make any of it up.
That is not my observation. The article linked here is a good example of red-pill performance ranting. The whole thing could just as easily be expressed as platitudes of Deep Wisdom: “ask not what other people can do for you, but what you can do for them”, “to give is to receive”, etc., and in other places it would be. There’s not much argument there, careful or otherwise. Of course not—it’s cracked.com, that’s the sort of thing that people go there for. I previously linked another example of the genre here.
Working through the Google hits for “red pill” turns up few specimens of conspicuous rationality, and to talk about “mainstream responders” is already to have yielded to the tainted insight of the red pill merchant.
I’m expressing disagreement with a common meme around here. Of course that will seem a bit hostile. But I shall not engage in any red-pill framing of that uninteresting fact.
I’m not talking about the things you can’t say, but about the idea of things you can’t say. That idea is a shield against reality, a mirror that makes everything behind it seem real, when it is just a distorted reflection of oneself.
Ok, I would not seriously attribute the view I described to anyone on LW. But there are people who explicitly believe in exactly that view, exactly as extremely as I portrayed it, and surround it with red-pill rhetoric. There is at least one on LW (who has not posted in this thread) who holds at least to a lesser form of men’s rightful power over women, and who I confidently expect would express approval of the joke in the original article. This is not fiction; I did not make any of it up.
That is not my observation. The article linked here is a good example of red-pill performance ranting. The whole thing could just as easily be expressed as platitudes of Deep Wisdom: “ask not what other people can do for you, but what you can do for them”, “to give is to receive”, etc., and in other places it would be. There’s not much argument there, careful or otherwise. Of course not—it’s cracked.com, that’s the sort of thing that people go there for. I previously linked another example of the genre here.
Working through the Google hits for “red pill” turns up few specimens of conspicuous rationality, and to talk about “mainstream responders” is already to have yielded to the tainted insight of the red pill merchant.
I’m expressing disagreement with a common meme around here. Of course that will seem a bit hostile. But I shall not engage in any red-pill framing of that uninteresting fact.
I’m not talking about the things you can’t say, but about the idea of things you can’t say. That idea is a shield against reality, a mirror that makes everything behind it seem real, when it is just a distorted reflection of oneself.
Ok, I would not seriously attribute the view I described to anyone on LW. But there are people who explicitly believe in exactly that view, exactly as extremely as I portrayed it, and surround it with red-pill rhetoric. There is at least one on LW (who has not posted in this thread) who holds at least to a lesser form of men’s rightful power over women, and who I confidently expect would express approval of the joke in the original article. This is not fiction; I did not make any of it up.
That is not my observation. The article linked here is a good example of red-pill performance ranting. The whole thing could just as easily be expressed as platitudes of Deep Wisdom: “ask not what other people can do for you, but what you can do for them”, “to give is to receive”, etc., and in other places it would be. There’s not much argument there, careful or otherwise. Of course not—it’s cracked.com, that’s the sort of thing that people go there for. I previously linked another example of the genre here.
Working through the Google hits for “red pill” turns up few specimens of conspicuous rationality, and to talk about “mainstream responders” is already to have yielded to the tainted insight of the red pill merchant.
Whoa, damn, you mean to say you recanted? That’s cool, I guess. Now join me in my meta-meta-meta-contrarian ivory tower; you’re smarter and more diligent than me. Although less interested in politics, I guess.
I’ve sort of gone back on one specific piece of evidence, which was that contrarians on some issues tend to have much stronger arguments, and therefor are probably right.
Yvain explained that quite well by noting that believers of popular belief have no incentive to seriously engage contrarians, lest they “legitimize” them or appear like they were taking them seriously. It is much more individually beneficial to point and laugh.
An extension of that, though is that you can get signalling absurdity arms-races that cause the mainstream position to become as absurd as possible. (see for example, Australia banning small-breast porn and most of the world banning drawn loli porn because “can’t let those damn pedos get off”).
Yvain ignored the implications for mainstream belief quality (at least as far as I could tell). But it seems pretty damning to me.
That’s what the quoted comment was referring to.
I’m unsure where I stand relative to you, Konkvistador, Moldbug, etc in all this. I’m still mostly Universalist in morality (universal brotherhood fuck yeah, let’s tear apart and rebuild the universe if it disagrees, etc), but pretty much reject all of its factual claims about literal equality, effectiveness of collective governance, etc. If you like, we could talk in more detail about this. (I would like that; I’m interested in your view, but haven’t had a chance to figure it out).
Don’t know why you think I’m smarter or more diligent, but you’re right that I think politics is a waste of time (except to root out political crud that you didn’t know you had, which is what I’ve been doing recently).
Lulz. Thank you for inviting me.
Good luck with that.
This seems a straw man.