Therefore she really doesn’t want to talk about it right now.
What if Alice does want to talk about it right now, and is using this to gauge the depth of Bob’s remorse? “Hm, he only asked three times then gave up. I guess he doesn’t really care.”
I never said my own hypothetical was the only way to read it… just offering an alternative viewpoint of what could be happening, to make sure we have more than one hypothesis here.
One should not assume that there is a power play involved… one should not assume that there is not a powerplay involved. One should not assume that Alice wants Bob to stop pestering her… one should not assume that Alice wants Bob to pester her...
One should consider all of these as possibilities… and then figure out which one is actually reality.
I was just offering a possible “inside view” to show that “power play” was not the only feasible option available.
What if Alice does want to talk about it right now, and is using this to gauge the depth of Bob’s remorse? “Hm, he only asked three times then gave up. I guess he doesn’t really care.”
Yes, that may also be an alternative reading.
I never said my own hypothetical was the only way to read it… just offering an alternative viewpoint of what could be happening, to make sure we have more than one hypothesis here.
One should not assume that there is a power play involved… one should not assume that there is not a powerplay involved. One should not assume that Alice wants Bob to stop pestering her… one should not assume that Alice wants Bob to pester her...
One should consider all of these as possibilities… and then figure out which one is actually reality.
I was just offering a possible “inside view” to show that “power play” was not the only feasible option available.