Certainly, if your main priority is stopping this behavior, that affects how your respond to it. But once you’ve decided to write articles telling the creeps how to act at events, and the advice is something other than “never go to events, just be alone”, then I think you need to offer advice more than “don’ts”.
And so if you’ve closed off the “they should just go away” route, then I think you have no choice but to offer solutions that avoid having to write the infinite list of articles about ”… or dance Irish jigs at random, either”. And that means saying what to do right.
I’m also a bit skeptical of the idea you peripherally touch on, but we’re seeing in a lot of the comments in this post, that avoiding the “creeper” equivalent on stepping on toes is a tough bar to clear and is unfair to ask of someone with deficits in social/people/communication skills.
I’ve never suggested that. That is an easy bar to clear indeed. My point is that clearing every such bar without positive advice (about what to do rather than not do) is hard. And so, again, you can certainly take the “who cares if they just never come at all?” approach, but since these articles don’t go that way, they have to do better than “don’ts”.
There was that study about (average, neurotypical) men’s supposed deficits in reading indirect communication compared to women that found that it’s basically rubbish
How is that relevant to the non-neurotypical creep type we’re concerned about here?
I am willing to attempt a separate Discussion post that attempts to put together specific, practical, measurable “do this (and here’s why)” techniques from a rationalist approach. (Or as close as possible; there won’t be a lot of peer-reviewed scholarly research here, but there is some.)
If there’s interest in this, I’d welcome assistance and critiques. I’m not stonewalling but I’m feeling we’ve wandered a bit too far from the OP.
Certainly, if your main priority is stopping this behavior, that affects how your respond to it. But once you’ve decided to write articles telling the creeps how to act at events, and the advice is something other than “never go to events, just be alone”, then I think you need to offer advice more than “don’ts”.
And so if you’ve closed off the “they should just go away” route, then I think you have no choice but to offer solutions that avoid having to write the infinite list of articles about ”… or dance Irish jigs at random, either”. And that means saying what to do right.
I’ve never suggested that. That is an easy bar to clear indeed. My point is that clearing every such bar without positive advice (about what to do rather than not do) is hard. And so, again, you can certainly take the “who cares if they just never come at all?” approach, but since these articles don’t go that way, they have to do better than “don’ts”.
How is that relevant to the non-neurotypical creep type we’re concerned about here?
I am willing to attempt a separate Discussion post that attempts to put together specific, practical, measurable “do this (and here’s why)” techniques from a rationalist approach. (Or as close as possible; there won’t be a lot of peer-reviewed scholarly research here, but there is some.)
If there’s interest in this, I’d welcome assistance and critiques. I’m not stonewalling but I’m feeling we’ve wandered a bit too far from the OP.