Are you truly unaware that some people have lots of friends some of them very good friends, while others have very few or even no friends? To the extent I fall in that second category, is it truly rational on my part to NOT attempt to do some of what it seems to me leads to better friendships using my rational mind to go that way?
A pretty french royal girl. “Let them eat cake.” Thank you.
My point is that a different, and IME superior, way of solving the “very few or even no friends” problem (e.g. myself 10 years ago, see the comment I linked to above) than trying harder to be friends with the people you’ve already tried to be friends with is to move on and try to be friends with different people.
YMMV. (I had taken “currently in the process of figuring out” to imply that so far it hadn’t worked out very well, but now from the “it seems to me leads to better friendships” I guess I was wrong.)
Are you truly unaware that some people have lots of friends some of them very good friends, while others have very few or even no friends? To the extent I fall in that second category, is it truly rational on my part to NOT attempt to do some of what it seems to me leads to better friendships using my rational mind to go that way?
A pretty french royal girl. “Let them eat cake.” Thank you.
My point is that a different, and IME superior, way of solving the “very few or even no friends” problem (e.g. myself 10 years ago, see the comment I linked to above) than trying harder to be friends with the people you’ve already tried to be friends with is to move on and try to be friends with different people.
YMMV. (I had taken “currently in the process of figuring out” to imply that so far it hadn’t worked out very well, but now from the “it seems to me leads to better friendships” I guess I was wrong.)