My point is that a different, and IME superior, way of solving the “very few or even no friends” problem (e.g. myself 10 years ago, see the comment I linked to above) than trying harder to be friends with the people you’ve already tried to be friends with is to move on and try to be friends with different people.
YMMV. (I had taken “currently in the process of figuring out” to imply that so far it hadn’t worked out very well, but now from the “it seems to me leads to better friendships” I guess I was wrong.)
My point is that a different, and IME superior, way of solving the “very few or even no friends” problem (e.g. myself 10 years ago, see the comment I linked to above) than trying harder to be friends with the people you’ve already tried to be friends with is to move on and try to be friends with different people.
YMMV. (I had taken “currently in the process of figuring out” to imply that so far it hadn’t worked out very well, but now from the “it seems to me leads to better friendships” I guess I was wrong.)