Honestly I don’t see the asymmetry in all the examples you just mentioned. You can make it sound asymmetrical, but as stated it isn’t, and if it actually were, it actually would be unfair.
It would be really unfair, if you insisted upon always being the employer and never the employee, and were never willing to ever do any work of your own in your life. (And then you expect people to give you money? For what?) But people don’t do that (maybe Donald Trump does), so it’s not a problem.
It would be really unfair, if you didn’t want to work but your spouse forced you to work and pay all the bills on the grounds that they didn’t want to work and it was “your job” somehow.
It would be really unfair, if the only thing you cared about in sex was what you want to do and have done to you, and your partner’s feelings don’t matter. In fact, in the extreme case we call that rape.
Want to try again? All your examples fail miserably, because they aren’t really asymmetrical in the way that “priority” polyamory is asymmetrical.
Honestly I don’t see the asymmetry in all the examples you just mentioned. You can make it sound asymmetrical, but as stated it isn’t, and if it actually were, it actually would be unfair.
It would be really unfair, if you insisted upon always being the employer and never the employee, and were never willing to ever do any work of your own in your life. (And then you expect people to give you money? For what?) But people don’t do that (maybe Donald Trump does), so it’s not a problem.
It would be really unfair, if you didn’t want to work but your spouse forced you to work and pay all the bills on the grounds that they didn’t want to work and it was “your job” somehow.
It would be really unfair, if the only thing you cared about in sex was what you want to do and have done to you, and your partner’s feelings don’t matter. In fact, in the extreme case we call that rape.
Want to try again? All your examples fail miserably, because they aren’t really asymmetrical in the way that “priority” polyamory is asymmetrical.
Nope, I’m done trying.