I agree with most of what you say here. I did not intend to imply you ought to feel or behave a certain way, so apologies if it seemed that way. I just don’t/didn’t understand, and would like to. Thanks for chiming in. (Didn’t realize how many poly folks were on the message board.)
Oh, don’t worry, I wasn’t feeling personally targeted. And just to avoid confusion: I’m not actually poly myself; I’ve been in a monogamous relationship for ~20 years and have no particular desire to alter that condition. But I live in a social circle where it is increasingly the default relationship option.
I agree with most of what you say here. I did not intend to imply you ought to feel or behave a certain way, so apologies if it seemed that way. I just don’t/didn’t understand, and would like to. Thanks for chiming in. (Didn’t realize how many poly folks were on the message board.)
Oh, don’t worry, I wasn’t feeling personally targeted. And just to avoid confusion: I’m not actually poly myself; I’ve been in a monogamous relationship for ~20 years and have no particular desire to alter that condition. But I live in a social circle where it is increasingly the default relationship option.