That seems apt in the way I expect you to intend/interpret these points (a concern separate from the one about norms), but I don’t agree with them in such sense. That illustrates my expectation for how norms get out of hand: the way other people start interpreting (and enforcing) them is often different from the intended sense, especially if the intended sense is importantly nuanced. Norms round off their mission statement to the nearest available idea, which is often not that great.
I direct your attention to 1, 3, and 4 of the above post, all of which are pointed at stuff like your second paragraph.
That seems apt in the way I expect you to intend/interpret these points (a concern separate from the one about norms), but I don’t agree with them in such sense. That illustrates my expectation for how norms get out of hand: the way other people start interpreting (and enforcing) them is often different from the intended sense, especially if the intended sense is importantly nuanced. Norms round off their mission statement to the nearest available idea, which is often not that great.