Ah that’s interesting, thanks for finding that. I’ve never read that before, so that wasn’t directly where I was drawing any of my ideas from, but maybe the content from the post made it somewhere else that I did read. I feel like that post is mostly missing the point about flirting, but I agree that it’s descriptively outlining the same thing as I am.
You’re probably thinking of the russian spies analogy, under section 2 in this (archived) livejournal post.
Ah that’s interesting, thanks for finding that. I’ve never read that before, so that wasn’t directly where I was drawing any of my ideas from, but maybe the content from the post made it somewhere else that I did read. I feel like that post is mostly missing the point about flirting, but I agree that it’s descriptively outlining the same thing as I am.
That definitely looks like the one. Appears I’d forgotten some of the context/details though.