Haha, same here. But it is a behavior that exists for a reason. (It is obnoxious when it is done too much or too crudely.) It sends the signal “pay attention: young woman here” across the whole room immediately. All heterosexual men notice. What is the point of being attractive, if potential mates happen to be looking in a different direction?
I guess the trick is to find the nearest things that is not obnoxious. (That is, use this description as a pointer in the approximate direction, not literally.) It is not an art that I practice, so I cannot provide exact instructions.
However:
high pitch is a signal of feminity (but maybe avoid too high, unless you are an opera singer)
laughing signals status (you feel safe to laugh audibly, don’t expect to be bullied by other girls)
Haha, same here. But it is a behavior that exists for a reason. (It is obnoxious when it is done too much or too crudely.) It sends the signal “pay attention: young woman here” across the whole room immediately. All heterosexual men notice. What is the point of being attractive, if potential mates happen to be looking in a different direction?
I guess the trick is to find the nearest things that is not obnoxious. (That is, use this description as a pointer in the approximate direction, not literally.) It is not an art that I practice, so I cannot provide exact instructions.
However:
high pitch is a signal of feminity (but maybe avoid too high, unless you are an opera singer)
laughing signals status (you feel safe to laugh audibly, don’t expect to be bullied by other girls)