I actually think that the worst thing it does for a male is signal and create selflessness rather than selfishness/arrogance. You can’t be a “bad boy” if you’re giving money to VillageReach, and it’s hard to pull of alpha unless you’re also very rich.
But is anyone wholly a bad boy? Without a single altruistic moment? I’ve never met such a person. Not even the ones who look like “bad boys” at the outset. And are you really going to put in the effort to become such a person, one hundred per cent arrogant, just to pick up women? That’s your sole terminal value? If so, enjoy… but I think it’s a rare man who remains so singularly obsessed even after he’s proven to himself that he can succeed with women. Maybe I’m wrong.
I actually think that the worst thing it does for a male is signal and create selflessness rather than selfishness/arrogance. You can’t be a “bad boy” if you’re giving money to VillageReach, and it’s hard to pull of alpha unless you’re also very rich.
I can see that.
But is anyone wholly a bad boy? Without a single altruistic moment? I’ve never met such a person. Not even the ones who look like “bad boys” at the outset. And are you really going to put in the effort to become such a person, one hundred per cent arrogant, just to pick up women? That’s your sole terminal value? If so, enjoy… but I think it’s a rare man who remains so singularly obsessed even after he’s proven to himself that he can succeed with women. Maybe I’m wrong.