This is my thing—I always want to hear about any person’s area of passion or expertise. It’s usually much more interesting than small talk.
But I find it’s often quite easy to get people started. I like to ask people about their work. (Scientists and engineers often seem particularly willing to talk, but there’s certainly a range.) If someone mentions a hobby, I’ll ask for details. I’ve learned a lot about ballroom dancing, guns, and violin from letting people ramble. It all comes down to being open to hearing long stories. I think people can somehow detect a willing listener, and as a result people seem to love to come to me with their stories.
This is my thing—I always want to hear about any person’s area of passion or expertise. It’s usually much more interesting than small talk.
But I find it’s often quite easy to get people started. I like to ask people about their work. (Scientists and engineers often seem particularly willing to talk, but there’s certainly a range.) If someone mentions a hobby, I’ll ask for details. I’ve learned a lot about ballroom dancing, guns, and violin from letting people ramble. It all comes down to being open to hearing long stories. I think people can somehow detect a willing listener, and as a result people seem to love to come to me with their stories.