an inability to entertain the fact that you might be the one at fault.
This nails it, in my opinion. I think frame control (at least many instances of it, and possibly all of them) is some kind of confidence trick where the person under the influence is confronted with such a strong and unwavering frame that they can’t help but update a bit in their direction. The only way to refuse to update is when you clearly see “What is going on, this person’s thinking/frame is completely out of the ordinary, probably they have some massive psychological issue.” Only when you see the extremity of it and stop taking it for granted because you are biased to treat things as “normal,” only the can you successfully refuse the frame.
This nails it, in my opinion. I think frame control (at least many instances of it, and possibly all of them) is some kind of confidence trick where the person under the influence is confronted with such a strong and unwavering frame that they can’t help but update a bit in their direction. The only way to refuse to update is when you clearly see “What is going on, this person’s thinking/frame is completely out of the ordinary, probably they have some massive psychological issue.” Only when you see the extremity of it and stop taking it for granted because you are biased to treat things as “normal,” only the can you successfully refuse the frame.