That also looks interesting, but the one I am referring to was older, and I remember one thing in the long list was “it is allowed to move to another city because your friends live there” or something like that, other things treated issues of “it’s allowed to pay someone else to do X because you don’t like to do it” etc.
Was it this: https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/2KacvW34BbXFmDBtQ/greyed-out-options
That also looks interesting, but the one I am referring to was older, and I remember one thing in the long list was “it is allowed to move to another city because your friends live there” or something like that, other things treated issues of “it’s allowed to pay someone else to do X because you don’t like to do it” etc.