I remember once coming across a website or blog article with a title that was something like “Things that are actually allowed” or something like that. On it was a list of things that should go without saying that you “may” do them, but many people don’t realize this and therefore get in their own way. I can’t find this webpage again—if anyone has the url that would be very helpful.
That also looks interesting, but the one I am referring to was older, and I remember one thing in the long list was “it is allowed to move to another city because your friends live there” or something like that, other things treated issues of “it’s allowed to pay someone else to do X because you don’t like to do it” etc.
I remember once coming across a website or blog article with a title that was something like “Things that are actually allowed” or something like that. On it was a list of things that should go without saying that you “may” do them, but many people don’t realize this and therefore get in their own way. I can’t find this webpage again—if anyone has the url that would be very helpful.
I assume it was Things you’re allowed to do?
Exactly! Thank you so much.
Was it this: https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/2KacvW34BbXFmDBtQ/greyed-out-options
That also looks interesting, but the one I am referring to was older, and I remember one thing in the long list was “it is allowed to move to another city because your friends live there” or something like that, other things treated issues of “it’s allowed to pay someone else to do X because you don’t like to do it” etc.