When I accepted the bet by ITakeBets, it didn’t feel like a status attack—just that he/she was honestly evaluating the likelihood of the event differently than I was, and so we both had a positive-return expectation given our different models. And I had the odds enough tilted enough away from my confidence levels, so that it worth the bother of betting.
I’d most likely not have accepted a bet from someone that offered it in the way that “see” did though. And I’d not feel the need to offer any excuse other than “No, I don’t feel like making a bet with you”.
If anyone makes you feel like you’re obliged to bet money, just refuse to bet—you don’t have to offer any excuses.
When the Pedant One used the term ‘status attack’ instead of push or bully or buffalo, I thought maybe that indicated there were resources on the topic. I love the feeling when I find there is a developed system and language for describing and expanding on something I thought I was familiar with. It’s almost always a game-changer.
When I accepted the bet by ITakeBets, it didn’t feel like a status attack—just that he/she was honestly evaluating the likelihood of the event differently than I was, and so we both had a positive-return expectation given our different models. And I had the odds enough tilted enough away from my confidence levels, so that it worth the bother of betting.
I’d most likely not have accepted a bet from someone that offered it in the way that “see” did though. And I’d not feel the need to offer any excuse other than “No, I don’t feel like making a bet with you”.
If anyone makes you feel like you’re obliged to bet money, just refuse to bet—you don’t have to offer any excuses.
Thanks. Your reassurance isn’t unappreciated.
When the Pedant One used the term ‘status attack’ instead of push or bully or buffalo, I thought maybe that indicated there were resources on the topic. I love the feeling when I find there is a developed system and language for describing and expanding on something I thought I was familiar with. It’s almost always a game-changer.
This is a good resource. Actual ‘attacks’ are a little too Dark Arts-y to get much discussion on LessWrong, though.
Thanks. It’s a nice list.
No DADA, eh?
Is rationality and a desire for self-improvement supposed to provide defense against Dark Arts as a side effect?
Here’s something, but it would be good if there were more discussion of the topic, yeah.