In a typical situation, the usual strategy is to have a few close friends you are honest with, and with all other people don’t ruin the illusion that you share the group beliefs. Do the minimum that is required to avoid suspicion. Pick your battles carefully.
In a typical situation, the usual strategy is to have a few close friends you are honest with, and with all other people don’t ruin the illusion that you share the group beliefs. Do the minimum that is required to avoid suspicion. Pick your battles carefully.
Paul Graham wrote about this: What You Can’t Say, Re: What You Can’t Say, Labels.