Ah, that does seem like a fair point. I think which question is most useful depends on individual circumstance, and I’m not sure the “how to get needs met” question necessarily causes the framing problem you mention, but I can definitely imagine cases where your reframe seems more helpful.
Ah, that does seem like a fair point. I think which question is most useful depends on individual circumstance, and I’m not sure the “how to get needs met” question necessarily causes the framing problem you mention, but I can definitely imagine cases where your reframe seems more helpful.