I think I don’t understand the difference between social and personal boundaries. Like, I read the post, I intellectually recognize the existence of this difference, but I have never noticed social boundaries, only my own personal ones. Presumably because my own are more strict, as you said. At some point I expect I must have absorbed a lot of them from the social milieu—but my social milieu growing up was television and books, and I deeply learned “avoid anything that looks like a situation on TV that made me cringe”, among other things.
I think I don’t understand the difference between social and personal boundaries. Like, I read the post, I intellectually recognize the existence of this difference, but I have never noticed social boundaries, only my own personal ones. Presumably because my own are more strict, as you said. At some point I expect I must have absorbed a lot of them from the social milieu—but my social milieu growing up was television and books, and I deeply learned “avoid anything that looks like a situation on TV that made me cringe”, among other things.