Sounds like experiences may vary somewhat: it does “hit me all over again” from time to time, but the impact when it hits me does lessen with time. If being “over it” means zero pain then that’s too much to expect, but if it means having integrated the fact of it into ones view of the world, if it means no longer being surprised at the memory of it, then that does happen at least sometimes.
Sounds like experiences may vary somewhat: it does “hit me all over again” from time to time, but the impact when it hits me does lessen with time. If being “over it” means zero pain then that’s too much to expect, but if it means having integrated the fact of it into ones view of the world, if it means no longer being surprised at the memory of it, then that does happen at least sometimes.