shminux might not be right, but given your information set I think you have to assign a reasonably high probability to him being right, and not doing this is a sign you are not looking at the situation rationally which means you should assign even a higher probability to him being right.
Given that multiple people pointed out that the problem might be with you and not with the universe, consider assigning a non-small probability that this is indeed the case and talk to the people who can fix you. Imagine the payoff: “you would be thrilled”. The alternative you have been pursuing so far clearly isn’t working—maybe it’s time to face reality.
Absolutely I would be thrilled if he was right.
I think this is circular reasoning...?
Given that multiple people pointed out that the problem might be with you and not with the universe, consider assigning a non-small probability that this is indeed the case and talk to the people who can fix you. Imagine the payoff: “you would be thrilled”. The alternative you have been pursuing so far clearly isn’t working—maybe it’s time to face reality.