I imagine having those problems would be trouble, and I’m sorry. In fairness though, your problems don’t sound like they stem from your being a rationalist. I guess it is too bad one of your interests is something that doesn’t lead to meeting a lot of women… but straight men interested in sports, cars, bbq etc. all have that problem. So there are probably better forums to ask these questions. The advice thats being given here is advice for rationalists qua rationalists. If your problem is just meeting women google it, get on match.com, go to a bar, whatever. If your problem is that the women you do date lose interest in you after a few days– how do you know it isn’t because of one of the problems alicorn suggested? I’m sure there are answers out there, you can’t fault a rationalist community for not being a relationship/pick up community.
I imagine having those problems would be trouble, and I’m sorry. In fairness though, your problems don’t sound like they stem from your being a rationalist. I guess it is too bad one of your interests is something that doesn’t lead to meeting a lot of women… but straight men interested in sports, cars, bbq etc. all have that problem. So there are probably better forums to ask these questions. The advice thats being given here is advice for rationalists qua rationalists. If your problem is just meeting women google it, get on match.com, go to a bar, whatever. If your problem is that the women you do date lose interest in you after a few days– how do you know it isn’t because of one of the problems alicorn suggested? I’m sure there are answers out there, you can’t fault a rationalist community for not being a relationship/pick up community.