Replacing condoms doesn’t work for people who aren’t currently in monogamous relationships. We need them to protect against STIs. Encouraging people to entirely replace condoms would I should think lead to an increase in STIs.
I’ve used condoms every single time I’ve had sex, and they’ve only failed twice. Both of the times they failed I took emergency contraception. I’ve never had a pregnancy scare. Of course I could be infertile, but many of my friends use the same method, and they find it effective. Others use a combination of hormonal contraception and condoms.
I’m torn here. Do I tell you that’s a good point because combination strategies can be much more effective at preventing pregnancy, or do I let you know that the efficacy rate for STIs are subject to the same forces as the efficacy rates for pregnancy?
I guess I can do both. You’ll decide what risk to take in any case.
The amount of protection that you can get from a condom against STIs is not as good as the amount of protection you get against pregnancy. Not everyone can give you an STI (about 20% of the population) whereas most straight couplings can lead to pregnancy (about 90% of people of childbearing age are fertile). So that increases your odds of a good outcome. Some people are honest about their STI status, and that also increases your odds of a good outcome—but don’t forget that some people do not even know that they have an STI, and others may be in denial or crazy or sociopathic—and if you’re having casual sex, you really can’t be sure about a person’s moral character and sanity level.
Your chance of getting an STI while using a condom would be a lot higher than 50% if you had a partner with a disease for the rest of your life. If you have random partners, and 1⁄20 people has an STI and some of them don’t know it, and some of them aren’t honest… I’m not sure what your chances are, but if you’re successful with finding partners, it could be substantially worse than a 2% lifetime risk.
You may want to try looking up rates of STI among people who have non-relationship sex.
Another possibility is to find a special friend and get tested together.
If that won’t work, a combination strategy (like condoms with spermicide) could be a significant improvement. You may want to research nonoxynol-9 before using it. I’ve heard that it increases the chance of disease transmission.
Pretty much all the non monogamous people I know get regular tests. So yes, most people use testing in addition to condoms. I don’t have casual sex any more, really, but I never caught an STI when I did.
Oh, and most condoms sold in the UK contain spermicide.
Replacing condoms doesn’t work for people who aren’t currently in monogamous relationships. We need them to protect against STIs. Encouraging people to entirely replace condoms would I should think lead to an increase in STIs.
I’ve used condoms every single time I’ve had sex, and they’ve only failed twice. Both of the times they failed I took emergency contraception. I’ve never had a pregnancy scare. Of course I could be infertile, but many of my friends use the same method, and they find it effective. Others use a combination of hormonal contraception and condoms.
I’m torn here. Do I tell you that’s a good point because combination strategies can be much more effective at preventing pregnancy, or do I let you know that the efficacy rate for STIs are subject to the same forces as the efficacy rates for pregnancy?
I guess I can do both. You’ll decide what risk to take in any case.
The amount of protection that you can get from a condom against STIs is not as good as the amount of protection you get against pregnancy. Not everyone can give you an STI (about 20% of the population) whereas most straight couplings can lead to pregnancy (about 90% of people of childbearing age are fertile). So that increases your odds of a good outcome. Some people are honest about their STI status, and that also increases your odds of a good outcome—but don’t forget that some people do not even know that they have an STI, and others may be in denial or crazy or sociopathic—and if you’re having casual sex, you really can’t be sure about a person’s moral character and sanity level.
Your chance of getting an STI while using a condom would be a lot higher than 50% if you had a partner with a disease for the rest of your life. If you have random partners, and 1⁄20 people has an STI and some of them don’t know it, and some of them aren’t honest… I’m not sure what your chances are, but if you’re successful with finding partners, it could be substantially worse than a 2% lifetime risk.
You may want to try looking up rates of STI among people who have non-relationship sex.
Another possibility is to find a special friend and get tested together.
If that won’t work, a combination strategy (like condoms with spermicide) could be a significant improvement. You may want to research nonoxynol-9 before using it. I’ve heard that it increases the chance of disease transmission.
Pretty much all the non monogamous people I know get regular tests. So yes, most people use testing in addition to condoms. I don’t have casual sex any more, really, but I never caught an STI when I did.
Oh, and most condoms sold in the UK contain spermicide.