“do you want to talk about the test” could be as bad or worse than talking about the test, if it’s taken as a reference to a judgement-worthy sensitivity to the topic
I agree. Although if you are known for asking those types of questions maybe people will learn to understand you never mean it as a judgement.
And “Can I ask you if you want to talk about whether you want to talk about the test” is just silly.
True, although I’ll usually take silly over judgement any day. :)
I agree. Although if you are known for asking those types of questions maybe people will learn to understand you never mean it as a judgement.
True, although I’ll usually take silly over judgement any day. :)